Tia Mowry can pinpoint the exact moment she knew her marriage was over "its about self love "

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It’s funny

So many woman will applaud this


But at the same time wonder why men don’t want to get married theses days


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This. Men got to realize everything is conditional. There's no ROI for being with someone. That goes for women too. Sounds like Tia saying she couldn't find happiness within her relationship and wanted to "grow". Which means it probably got boring. Once you realize you're not owed anything by anyone and you're just leasing their time the easier it is
 

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Absolute babble TBH

14 years is a decent time. Most couples barely make it to 7 most of these modern couples will be lucky to last 2-3 years

She was bored, she thinks it better to be out here single. It happens, but nobody wants to really admit that as it seems crass. As usual she filed the papers.

Once a grown married woman starts posting provocative pictures on social media she's advertising and looking for the wrong or in her case right kind of attention. Who she's trying to be 'sexy' for?

Herself? Other women or thirsty men?

Was it true he was out here with a side chick? That would explain a few things about her change up, and wanting to feel 'sexy' again for other people other than her husband.

Telling you now the first man she's fukked after the separation probably got the ultra nasty version of her. Like she had a point to prove.
 
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Till death do us part.

Did one of yall die? No?


Well then














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When women start on their mental health journey while in a relationship with you, you should start looking for a new relationship bc yours is done :russ:
 

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Marriage is not about being happy. It’s about duty. It’s about rearing children. You have a 4 year old and a teenager.

Till death do us part. It’s part of the vow you took :why:


If marriage is about happiness then we are all doomed because a woman is fickle. Her hormones are constantly shifting. Irreconcilable Differences. That killed marriage
 

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I agree with this gentleman.


That being said, something bad most likely happened which is why she was able to walk away and be so definite about it.
Contrary to popular belief around here, plenty of women stay despite some horrible treatment they receive. Celebs included.

Something happened.

Nothing happened, the reason she is juelzing is she wanted out. If he did something she would be in victim mode
 

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I don't know their circumstances, but its always been said that women plan the break-up way in advance. She just wasn't feeling ole boy anymore.

Personally I'd NEVER start off a relationship with a woman the way they did, that will always be a bone of contention. I'll be damned if, as a capable man anyone tells me if it wasn't for them I wouldn't have XYZ and I wouldn't be shyt and throw that shyt back in my face...fukk that. Self sufficiency is key no matter how long it takes.
 

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It’s funny

So many woman will applaud this


But at the same time wonder why men don’t want to get married theses days


:ohhh:
It's amazing to me (well not really tbh lol) that they never seem to understand or grasp the correlation. Or maybe they do and they just don't care to pretend like it's something that needs addressing. Meaning unpacking the baggage of BOTH genders.....but these broads think life on earth started in their lil polluted used and abused tilapia boxes so you can't tell em nothing
 
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This. Men got to realize everything is conditional. There's no ROI for being with someone. That goes for women too. Sounds like Tia saying she couldn't find happiness within her relationship and wanted to "grow". Which means it probably got boring. Once you realize you're not owed anything by anyone and you're just leasing their time the easier it is




The Bored Sex​

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.

Marta Meana of the University of Nevada at Las Vegas spelled it out simply in an interview with me at the annual Society for Sex Therapy and Research conference in 2017. “Long-term relationships are tough on desire, and particularly on female desire,” she said. I was startled by her assertion, which contradicted just about everything I’d internalized over the years about who and how women are sexually. Somehow I, along with nearly everyone else I knew, was stuck on the idea that women are in it for the cuddles as much as the orgasms, and—besides—actually require emotional connection and familiarity to thrive sexually, whereas men chafe against the strictures of monogamy.

But Meana discovered that “institutionalization of the relationship, overfamiliarity, and desexualization of roles” in a long-term heterosexual partnership mess with female passion especially—a conclusion that’s consistent with other recent studies.

“Moving In With Your Boyfriend Can Kill Your Sex Drive” was how Newsweek distilled a 2017 study of more than 11,500 British adults aged 16 to 74. It found that for “women only, lack of interest in sex was higher among those in a relationship of over one year in duration,” and that “women living with a partner were more likely to lack interest in sex than those in other relationship categories.” A 2012 study of 170 men and women aged 18 to 25 who were in relationships of up to nine years similarly found that women’s sexual desire, but not men’s, “was significantly and negatively predicted by relationship duration after controlling for age, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfaction.” Two oft-cited German longitudinal studies, published in 2002 and 2006, show female desire dropping dramatically over 90 months, while men’s holds relatively steady. (Tellingly, women who didn’t live with their partners were spared this amusement-park-ride-like drop—perhaps because they were making an end run around overfamiliarity.) And a Finnish seven-year study of more than 2,100 women, published in 2016, revealed that women’s sexual desire varied depending on relationship status: Those in the same relationship over the study period reported less desire, arousal, and satisfaction. Annika Gunst, one of the study’s co-authors, told me that she and her colleagues initially suspected this might be related to having kids. But when the researchers controlled for that variable, it turned out to have no impact.

Many women want monogamy. It’s a cozy arrangement, and one our culture endorses, to put it mildly. But wanting monogamy isn’t the same as feeling desire in a long-term monogamous partnership. The psychiatrist and sexual-health practitioner Elisabeth Gordon told me that in her clinical experience, as in the data, women disproportionately present with lower sexual desire than their male partners of a year or more, and in the longer term as well. “The complaint has historically been attributed to a lower baseline libido for women, but that explanation conveniently ignores that women regularly start relationships equally as excited for sex.” Women in long-term, committed heterosexual partnerships might think they’ve “gone off” sex—but it’s more that they’ve gone off the same sex with the same person over and over.
 

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Marriage is not about being happy. It’s about duty. It’s about rearing children. You have a 4 year old and a teenager.

Till death do us part. It’s part of the vow you took :why:


If marriage is about happiness then we are all doomed because a woman is fickle. Her hormones are constantly shifting. Irreconcilable Differences. That killed marriage
Its time to change these laws to reflect the temporary mindset that seems to be coming from marriage.. Its too one sided at this point.. Just make it a renewable contract every few years and be done with it.. Humans are serial monogamous, its time marriage reflect that..
 
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