Tia Mowry can pinpoint the exact moment she knew her marriage was over "its about self love "

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nikka I been married for a decade. If I up and leave my wife right now for no other reason than “self love” and blindside her. Then yea. I just woke up and called it quits. Atleast that’s how SHE’s gonna see it. Every marriage has problems. And rough patches.

With respect to your union. You don't have to stay with somebody just because you've been married a long time.

When it's done, it's done.
 

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People more dedicated to their jobs than a whole marriage.


They'll get up and go to work 5 days a week 40 hours or more and hate every minute of it but will stay there and make it work.


The same person will get married, spend more time at the same job and turn around leave their spouse over "growing apart"... Not getting cheated on, or abuse... but growing apart.


Smh
 

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There's no loyalty, consistence, or commitment. It's all about self. It lacks integrity
She was with the man 15 years and got a divorce after she no longer desired a relationship. As far as I know she didn't cheat on him. Now it she cheated on him then I would agree but that doesn't seen to be the case with the available facts.
 

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With respect to your union. You don't have to stay with somebody just because you've been married a long time.

When it's done, it's done.
Of course not. But u don’t give up just cause theirs a rough patch either. Life ain’t a fairytale. There’s real consequences to destroying a union. Unless it’s infidelity or something that can’t be repaired. U gotta try. Marriage ain’t easy.
 

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She was with the man 15 years and got a divorce after she no longer desired a relationship. As far as I know she didn't cheat on him. Now it she cheated on him then I would agree but that doesn't seen to be the case with the available facts.

Again, there's no difference in dating if she's going to do that. She never valued her marriage if this is the case. You dont just leave because you feel you're in some kind of rut. OK we dont know why she left, but if he didnt cheat or beat her, she doesn't understand, much less value marriage.
 

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She was with the man 15 years and got a divorce after she no longer desired a relationship. As far as I know she didn't cheat on him. Now it she cheated on him then I would agree but that doesn't seen to be the case with the available facts.
With the available facts he didn’t cheat on her either. And it seems like the “therapy” she went to was only for her and not COUPLES therapy which should happen if u start feeling there is issues in the marriage. From the available facts. She basically admitted to being selfish as fukk.
 

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With the available facts he didn’t cheat on her either. And it seems like the “therapy” she went to was only for her and not COUPLES therapy which should happen if u start feeling there is issues in the marriage. From the available facts. She basically admitted to being selfish as fukk.
If you are no longer happy in the marriage I don't think it's selfish to end the marriage idk what to tell you I'm not outraged this doesn't bother me nor do I find it selfish. She wanted out and exercised that right.
 

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She's saying she became too mature for him. But she was posting thirst traps on Instagram while still married :jbhmm:
Thottness was rising up in her husband didn't like her thrist trapping which is his right not to so she bounced typical for selfish attractive women once father time starts to downgrade there looks they got to know if other man find them good looking still and a good husband loves you for you but that's not good enough of for them becuase it doesn't validate what they want to be validated.
 
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