She ain’t going anywhere… Steph bread too long, way more famous than she is and got hoes that look better than her lined up ready to take her placeAyhsa curry is next on the list
Tia Mowry can pinpoint the exact moment she knew her marriage was over "its about self love "
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This is a low life mindset.
I just read this elsewhere. Shyt sad. Feel sorry for that breh.
At the end of the day, she's basically confessing, she fell outta love wit her husband (embarrassing the man publically)....."Thanks for the kids.....but now I wanna thot."
Hopefully, he recognizes he's dodging a missile tho. If the chick, wants to hoe, let the streets have it's way. I'm sure it won't end well for her.
She going to feel a type of way when breh starts winning and being seen with younger and finer chics on his arm.. HER LOSS
Fellas, if you decide to get married, get yourself an iron clad pre-nup for situations like this. They will wake up one day and decide they no longer want to be with you and try to put you through hell in court.
Chrishaune
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People used to get put out of the community for stuff like this.
But the Babylon generation is going to find out soon the consequences of it's actions.
But the Babylon generation is going to find out soon the consequences of it's actions.
She's probably being short on details to protect her ex husband. But if the narrative that she only did this for new dikk starts to take hold, I can imagine her spilling all of beans and getting shyt on for telling the world what went on behind closed doors.
If a child abandons their parent because they're unhappy, we'd call that child rebellious because we have all kinds of ready-made labels that don't necessarily capture what the core issues are. In this nation and system children can literally divorce their parents, we call it emancipation and it's an option for kids that are able to support themselves and have irreconcilable issues with their parents.
If a parent is unhappy with their choice being a parent, we have another label for that parent, "deadbeat" because that parent is abandoning their responsibility to raise a child. This is not analogous to one spouse leaving the other.
Tia isn't abandoning her responsibilities as a mother to her children, she is separating from her husband, exiting a 10 year marriage that she cannot find happiness in.
Comparing married people divorcing to a parent abandoning their children is fallacious.
African Peasant
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How did you come to that conclusion?
Elim Garak
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Why?
How did you come to that conclusion?
Because it makes sense. She could easily get into more detail about why she was unhappy in her marriage and why leaving her husband is the path towards happiness.
African Peasant
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So you're inventing a scenario and smearing the husband so Tia divorcing won't look bad?
Since her leaving her husband for no reason doesn't make sense, you're inventing a reason. Something even her never said.
Stop it and put that cap down.
She's probably being short on details to protect her ex husband. But if the narrative that she only did this for new dikk starts to take hold, I can imagine her spilling all of beans and getting shyt on for telling the world what went on behind closed doors.
If a child abandons their parent because they're unhappy, we'd call that child rebellious because we have all kinds of ready-made labels that don't necessarily capture what the core issues are. In this nation and system children can literally divorce their parents, we call it emancipation and it's an option for kids that are able to support themselves and have irreconcilable issues with their parents.
If a parent is unhappy with their choice being a parent, we have another label for that parent, "deadbeat" because that parent is abandoning their responsibility to raise a child. This is not analogous to one spouse leaving the other.
Tia isn't abandoning her responsibilities as a mother to her children, she is separating from her husband, exiting a 10 year marriage that she cannot find happiness in.
Comparing married people divorcing to a parent abandoning their children is fallacious.
What do we call folks that give up on obligations, duties "quitters" right? I'm sure you've used all those terms that you have said society cast, but yet you don't have anything negative for a woman, in this case Tia for wrecking her marriage. She's supposed to be able to do what she wants and not have any type of accountability casted on her because she is a woman, ok, let's go with that. I'm fine with it BUT:
If a man decides to just up and leave their marriage of however many days, years because he's unhappy, will you have that same energy and cast him in the same positive light as you are doing Tia. I hope you do, because that's what is about to start happening seeing how women have been doing it for many years, and it's getting out of hand by the day.
Tia case doesn't not make things any better, but that's the road she took, so be it. BUT again
Just remember now, when men start up and divorcing their wives (women mostly are the ones who file for divorce 70-80% filing rate by women) because they are feeling down and out and unhappy, filling for divorce because they are unhappy, let's keep that same energy. And before you go to that so call stance on "Men don't divorce their wives they just cheat" just remember married black men cheat at a 28% rate and black women cheat at a 24% rate, close behind, I would go on to say that women cheat more because of the attention that women get, but again:
When men start divorcing women because they are unhappy and they want happiness and peace and find it with another woman or just want to get back in the game and hoe around, let's all praise that man for his decision to wanting to find peace and happiness.
Let's have the same energy when a man leaves a woman of x number of years who hasn't done anything foul in the marriage, the man is just unhappy, give him the same grace as you are giving Tia.
So you're inventing a scenario and smearing the husband so Tia divorcing won't look bad?
Since her leaving her husband for no reason doesn't make sense, you're inventing a reason. Something even her never said.
Stop it and put that cap down.
I'm not inventing a reason at all, I'm making a logical hypothesis based on what we know. Where is your smoke for the other people in here making up scenarios about her destroying her family because she wants some new dikk.
I'd definitely keep the same energy but I can confidently predict that there will be no such wave of men divorcing women and the reasons are pretty damn obvious, men are fine in their marriages because the arrangements largely center around women catering to their husbands.
African Peasant
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Nope. You clearly said that you're making up scenario in order for her action to make sense.I'm not inventing a reason at all, I'm making a logical hypothesis based on what we know. Where is your smoke for the other people in here making up scenarios about her destroying her family because she wants some new dikk.
I ask you again, what do you know that leads to imply that her husband did something wrong?