Throwing in the towel. I give up with women.

[observe]

?? do you have your own place and a steady career? as long as your fit and not boring having a career and a nice pad is about 80% of game with a lot of women

also if your just doing online dating sights...drop that shyt its no substitute for meeting a random girl at the cafe, supermarket, train...girls always fantasize about meeting Mr right in a place like that fukk that online dating shyt its not worth it because there is no real interaction and hot girls get like a shytload of messages a day

Ya I'm fit, I have a studio apartment, but I only work part time and I don't have a car..

 

[Slystallion]

Ya I'm fit, I have a studio apartment, but I only work part time and I don't have a car..

working part time is fine if it gives you a comfortable life...i mean those old school broker dealer financial advisor types can do that but they are pretty shady.

Not having a car is fine if you live in NYC or a place where trains and buses can take you anywhere you need

but i'm guessing your just talking to girls on dating sites and not interacting in the real world...its a numbers game though breh just keep at it and stay positive and purse a goal to get you to where you want to be...pursuing goals is also something woman find attractive

 

[O.T.I.S.]

SF..I always get a few messages in with these hot girls, but after a few messages they dont respond..I can reel em in..just can't keep em..my game must be weak

Yea I get that sometimes too...

Like @Slystallion said, basically online messaging sucks. I've reeled a few in but it doesn't seem to last with me neither (atleast with the ones I want it to...). It's better to get them in person, but every chick I've met online has thousands of dudes hitting them up online or either I don't feel them/ vice versa.


I'm just getting back in the dating game too... This crap is scressful sometimes



Edit: I also got a car/career (even though not sure where that's heading) but I room in with a couple ppl military style (thought I was getting deployed) so I got rid of my studio

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Yes yes let's all post pictures of celebrities, people with status a lot of money and influence to prove your point.

Want me to post pics of regular cats with taller women? You know it happens in real life right?

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

Breh fukk online dating... Go for these chicks in real life. Your wits and charm can be a great equalizer in person. The internet shyt is played out as far as getting women. These women are getting hundreds to thousands of messages per day (yes per day). Some of them just use it to feel better about themselves. I've even had chicks admit to me that they sign up so they can feel pretty. Even your average land whale is getting tons of messages everday. Use your confidence, or fake some confidence to disarm these chicks... and use some humor. You already got a career, money, and im guessing nice clothes... you'll be in there. Get in shape if you're flabby n sick.

 

[Momentum]

Nah I ain't gay. I like bytches, but it's a hard life when you're a clean cut Asian professional dude standing 5'3-4.

Do you not like Asian girls?

EDIT: Google this book called "The Book of Pook." Download it, read it. Digest it. You're welcome.

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh fukk online dating... Go for these chicks in real life. Your wits and charm can be a great equalizer in person. The internet shyt is played out as far as getting women. These women are getting hundreds to thousands of messages per day (yes per day). Some of them just use it to feel better about themselves. I've even had chicks admit to me that they sign up so they can feel pretty. Even your average land whale is getting tons of messages everday. Use your confidence, or fake some confidence to disarm these chicks... and use some humor. You already got a career, money, and im guessing nice clothes... you'll be in there. Get in shape if you're flabby n sick.

i agree

we all know some fat funny guy with a girl because of his persoanlity, that can't be shown online.

Online dating to me is like throwing some bread in the park and seeing like 100 seagulls fight over it, that's basically you messaging a broad on pof, ok cupid, match etc. your the seagull she's the bread, she's getting 100 msgs, she doesn't have to do anything.

I remember last time i was on pof, just clicking on tis girls profile she was lik ea 7 out of ten and she print screen a photo with her inbox and it said like 251 msgs, and it said and thats only for one day.

that same girl gettign 251 messages a day, is not getting hollared at 251 times in real life,

 

[Dooby]

You should talk to @Kind Gentleman you two share similar struggles. I'm really beginning to feel sorry for him. Look at how down trodden he looks:

I would be sad too if I was such an unfortunate looking fellow.

I would be sad too if my artistic pictures attempting to make myself appear shrouded in mystery only gave off vast quantities of moistness and a tendency to he-bytch actions.

I would be sad too if my gf caught me trying to make cherry kool aid from her used tampons.

Why does he look like Drake's number one fan?

Why does he look like a depressed Cro-Magnon in every one of his photos?

I guess the world will never know.

But does the world care?

#FactsOnly

 

[Spin]

One thing guys need to do is get more touchy with girls right from the jump. I don't care how good your "game" is, you ain't getting anywhere without physical touching. Start with a hug or tap her shoulder as a thought comes to you. Basically anything to get something physical going. If she lets you do that, and you don't come off as a creep , move on to something more. I have had friends make girls laugh all night, but couldn't get any play. Save time and mental abuse..if you can touch, you can .

 

[newworldafro]

You do got to be at peace with it...


But I got you dawg, I'm gonna coach you on this shyt.


First of all, you secretly already winning because you got your shyt together. The reason why most females tend to go with taller dudes is because there's this belief that the bigger you are the more you can protect/provide for them better. And thats DEFINITELY not always the case.

You got to be confident in yourself and your abilities. From what you posted, you're already good in the mind and wallet


Now it's time to hit the gym, put some weight on your bones. You can't be really short and out of shape dawg, trust me it's not a good look. Don't do it for females though, do it for yourself.

Second get yourself in a self defense class like BJJ or boxing or something. I say this because no matter what, you got to learn to handle yours to a certain degree so people won't assume that because you're short that you're also . You chinese, so I would assume you've done some form of Martial Arts before, get back into it, you could meet a chick there who is impressed by your style...

In fact, that can go into anything really. Find a hobby. I like working with kids and I've seen females who would act towards me turn into over that alone. But I don't date single mothers so ... (just my preference)


There's other things you could do to make yourself more attractive to the average female these days like get tats, switch your style up, etc. but honestly, just being happy with yourself and having fun is what usually worked for me. Nothing you can do about your height and I've seen plenty of short dudes that just appear to not give a fukk and that works for them. Having personality helps too, don't put these females on pedestals. Most of them don't have personality neither

I was reading with and ..... until the red ... you killed me right there ... ........

One thing guys need to do is get more touchy with girls right from the jump. I don't care how good your "game" is, you ain't getting anywhere without physical touching. Start with a hug or tap her shoulder as a thought comes to you. Basically anything to get something physical going. If she lets you do that, and you don't come off as a creep , move on to something more. I have had friends make girls laugh all night, but couldn't get any play. Save time and mental abuse..if you can touch, you can .

had this old schoool playa (aka dead beat 51 year old dude that lives from place to place and went to jail for back child support payment) ... but genuinely cool cat, school me on that this weekend ... standing in this long ass line at the grocery store, he saw me looking at some chicks (they just happened to be in my view, wasn't even paying them no mind)... but he said this... like touching a chick with the back of your hand on the arms or waist a few times is way to get to gradually palm, if she lets you touch her with the back of your hand, then then you can touch a little more .... he gave me some interesting pointers in 10 mintues

 

[Anti-Anime]

Got damn... We got Breezy posting on the Coli... Y'all simps might as well give up.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

i agree

we all know some fat funny guy with a girl because of his persoanlity, that can't be shown online.

Online dating to me is like throwing some bread in the park and seeing like 100 seagulls fight over it, that's basically you messaging a broad on pof, ok cupid, match etc. your the seagull she's the bread, she's getting 100 msgs, she doesn't have to do anything.

I remember last time i was on pof, just clicking on tis girls profile she was lik ea 7 out of ten and she print screen a photo with her inbox and it said like 251 msgs, and it said and thats only for one day.

that same girl gettign 251 messages a day, is not getting hollared at 251 times in real life,

Online is the worst place too meet a chick
Whales getting 1000 messages
Face to face offline>>>>>>

 

[laughattack]

You should talk to @Kind Gentleman you two share similar struggles. I'm really beginning to feel sorry for him. Look at how down trodden he looks:

I would be sad too if I was such an unfortunate looking fellow.

I would be sad too if my artistic pictures attempting to make myself appear shrouded in mystery only gave off vast quantities of moistness and a tendency to he-bytch actions.

I would be sad too if my gf caught me trying to make cherry kool aid from her used tampons.

Why does he look like Drake's number one fan?

Why does he look like a depressed Cro-Magnon in every one of his photos?


I guess the world will never know.

But does the world care?

#FactsOnly

are those pics really of that poster? haha. he's a cutie, but probably very young.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I was reading with and ..... until the red ... you killed me right there ... ........

I was partly serious too

 

[Dooby]

are those pics really of that poster? haha. he's a cutie, but probably very young.

Kind Gentleman, how many aliases are you going to make?