Throwing in the towel. I give up with women.

Raava

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Nah I'm Chinese and height is a big deal over there. Even I'm short compared to the dudes in Beijing and Shanghai nowadays. Could I get a landbeast in China? Sure, but I don't know if I'm willing to. Maybe it's my pride. I worked hard in school, got a good job and make good money. Whatever, life ain't fair. I just got to be at peace with it.
Though some women prefer taller guys, its not always a factor. I have given serious thought to shorter guys. Their height wasn't why we didn't work out. They didn't act like their height mattered either or my height bothered them. Confidence is key. Hang in there or just chill out.
 

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Second get yourself in a self defense class like BJJ or boxing or something. I say this because no matter what, you got to learn to handle yours to a certain degree so people won't assume that because you're short that you're also :eat:. You chinese, so I would assume you've done some form of Martial Arts before, get back into it, you could meet a chick there who is impressed by your style...


LOOOOOOOL :DEAD: :DEAD:


he's right though.. you have to have things going for yourself and extreme confidence. Let it be known that you're a man always on the move, always doing something. Women will want to align themselves with you bc of of this +your confidence+ your success.
 

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Maybe its time to learn some Brazillian Jiujitsu, friend. Theres a guy we train with whos filipino and like 5'3. He looks liek 40 glocc and he has a 5'11 wife whos a real nice person. You have to get into the mix and be more social with friends, friend. :sitdown:
 

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:yeshrug:Instead of giving up on women, why dont you give up on your high expectations? Life with women is so much easier once you stop giving a fukk. I learned this lesson back in elementary school. Why do nice guys finish last? Because a nice guy is the last thing a woman wants. Stop respecting them until they give you a reason to respect them. Dont take their shyt sandwich and smile and say thank you.
 

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Nah I'm Chinese and height is a big deal over there. Even I'm short compared to the dudes in Beijing and Shanghai nowadays. Could I get a landbeast in China? Sure, but I don't know if I'm willing to. Maybe it's my pride. I worked hard in school, got a good job and make good money. Whatever, life ain't fair. I just got to be at peace with it.
i'm with you broseefus, just cuz i'm facially challenged doesnt mean I cant pine for these pretty wimminz.
I blame my baby booming rents who told me I could achieve anything if I put my mind to it, in these lands of milk and honey (Moses and the Israelites?)
Well I cant achieve scarlett josomething dime pieces on my arm
:pacspit:
 

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Though some women prefer taller guys, its not always a factor. I have given serious thought to shorter guys. Their height wasn't why we didn't work out. They didn't act like their height mattered either or my height bothered them. Confidence is key. Hang in there or just chill out.
Given a serious thought :wtf:

So you were rejecting dudes cause of their height
 

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Although rare, I do hear of Latinas that date Asian men.... As fukked up as this is going to sound, it's somewhat true..... If you want a Latina that bad there are Ricans, & Cubans that will never breathe on a black man but will date anything under the sun. Do like those dudes on Bodybuilder and get into Godly shape and build some self-esteem..... I'm sure you'll get one. If you do that you'll have white women giving you play too.
Most of those guys on Bodybuilder build up their bodies to compensate for their lack of self esteem. They still never get it.
 

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Leg extension surgery does exist :comeon:

shyt seems too much. Plus that would put me out of commission for 12-18 months and would fukk up my career. I would then be at 5'6 and jobless. Not a good gamble from my perspective.
 

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shyt seems too much. Plus that would put me out of commission for 12-18 months and would fukk up my career. I would then be at 5'6 and jobless. Not a good gamble from my perspective.

Marry a dwarf
 

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Given a serious thought :wtf:

So you were rejecting dudes cause of their height

No, not unless there was an extreme height difference. I am saying my preference is taller guys but I have talked to shorter guys before. I gave serious thought about a future with them regardless of my preference. Saying to OP height doesn't always matter even for women who like taller guys.
 

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No, not unless there was an extreme height difference. I am saying my preference is taller guys but I have talked to shorter guys before. I gave serious thought about a future with them regardless of my preference. Saying to OP height doesn't always matter even for women who like taller guys.
How tall are you?
 
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