Thoughts on Physical Punishment of Children?

[Chrishaune]

Says the person regurgitating bible verses .

Listen to yourself, you are lawless and your kids will be too.

 

[TheHonorableOmarSharif]

I got belts and extension cords. Just made me get better at getting away with shyt. I talk to my kids for their rationale without physicality and they got better at talking.

I'll take that approach.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

And a lot of our kids have a disagreement, hear someone talking shyt about them, or get bumped into in the hallway, and are ready to throw hands.

We use violence as a result to our kids doing something wrong, and they go on to use violence as conflict resolution.

Was just about to say. We really gonna sit out here and pretend like black people are role models of emotional stability and ain't been the poster children of violent irrational outburts?? Niccas commit "shootings" on innocent people every damn day. Cmon now. We gotta be real. This Bible based archaic barbarism ain't parenting and it don't work.

 

[Zero]

It won't be the first option, but it's on the table if they keep fukking up


Some of yall aint get beat enough

 

[Son Goku]

No, I have a 7-year-old and have not had to spank/beat or use any form of corporal punishment. Studies have shown doing so leads to further behavioral problems. There really is no justification for it. Black people need to let go of that slave bullshyt. Then we wonder why so many of us are violent and have no form of conflict resolution.

[Redacted the names of the bytch-ass posters you @‘ed]

Spanking works on some kids and doesn’t on others.


I was a bad-ass from age 6 to age 14. Timeout and all that other bullshyt white folks do didn’t work on me. Only the threat of violence could keep me in line.


I got my ass whooped all the time and that shyt didn’t really work. Yeah, it mighta hurt for a minute but after a while the pain goes away and you move on. Losing privileges was definitely more effective in hindsight.


Siblings got spanked (rarely) and grew up to be good, altruistic human beings.


I grew up to be a bigger, more resentful demon.


tl;dr: Some kids just need their ass whooped.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Spanking works on some kids and doesn’t on others.


I was a bad-ass from age 6 to age 14. Timeout and all that other bullshyt white folks do didn’t work on me. Only the threat of violence could keep me in line.


I got my ass whooped all the time and that shyt didn’t really work. Yeah, it mighta hurt for a minute but after a while the pain goes away and you move on. Losing privileges was definitely more effective in hindsight.


Siblings got spanked (rarely) and grew up to be good, altruistic human beings.


I grew up to be a bigger, more resentful demon.


tl;dr: Some kids just need their ass whooped.

Is that why you be angry dapping everybody?

 

[Son Goku]

Is that why you be angry dapping everybody?

Nope, if I disagree with some shyt that got said they get a or a dap.


If you’re mad I don’t dap your posts up, just say that.

 

[breakfuss]

It won't be the first option, but it's on the table if they keep fukking up


Some of yall aint get beat enough

Honestly we need to stop joking about or making lite of it. It’s abuse.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Hitting is what a panicked and frustrated parent does. They lie to themselves and say that they're doing it because it's effective(it's not. It's lots of kids out here who got beaten and are in jail or drug addicts). They're doing it because they lack creativity and patience. If you don't have those things you have no business having a child. If you're struggling to take care of your own household before a kid, one of the dumbest things you can ever do is engage in unprotected sex and then having a kid and struggling to meet all the obligations you have to that child and yourself.

 

[breakfuss]

Spanking works on some kids and doesn’t on others.


I was a bad-ass from age 6 to age 14. Timeout and all that other bullshyt white folks do didn’t work on me. Only the threat of violence could keep me in line.


I got my ass whooped all the time and that shyt didn’t really work. Yeah, it mighta hurt for a minute but after a while the pain goes away and you move on. Losing privileges was definitely more effective in hindsight.


Siblings got spanked (rarely) and grew up to be good, altruistic human beings.


I grew up to be a bigger, more resentful demon.


tl;dr: Some kids just need their ass whooped.

Bro I’ve administered the occasional pop when necessary. Very rarely but I don’t play with safety shyt like crossing the street. Nothing is ever out of anger though. And believe me, I can get angry . But I go back to how it made me feel as a child to be hit, humiliated and berated. Nothing positive came from that shyt. Black people loooooove to talk about how they got beat as a kid and things turned out alright for them. Nonsense. We say that as a coping mechanism. Quick glance at aggregate homicide and violent crime data shows things did NOT turn out “alright” for us.

 

[RareHunter]

This is why the black community is fukked up. Still practicing and emulating the behaviors of our oppressors, including their selective hypocritical Bible thumping while dehumanizing others, and the "suffer now, your reward is in heaven" miserable living.

White parents raise their kids and their homes with maturity and respect. They learn and practice new and progressive methods of engaging with kids and maintaining a healthy family that work and raises their kids to be the next generation of fearless and respectable leaders in this world that reflects the healthy environment they were given. But black parents wanna take that same Bible that was shoved in our faces as property to white people 600 years ago, pass it down generation after generation and teach our own kids how to be quiet, obedient, battered slaves to a master with mental issues. That, or how to be whacked out "tough" domestic terrorists.

Amd then we wonder why our kids are nuts in the street and falling behind when others are getting ahead. We want to talk about abusive systemic racism holding our youth back. We got to talk about abusive, systemic, shytty, lazy, Bible based parenting plaguing our communities.

Beating does NOT work. And black parents who think just following a Bible verse and calling it a day is "parenting" are the worst. The WORST. Lazy and dumb. Put down the Bible, put down the belt, and ENGAGE with your children.

Sparing the rod is not only physical. It could be verbal correction as well, while explaining the why and hows.

 

[RareHunter]

Was just about to say. We really gonna sit out here and pretend like black people are role models of emotional stability and ain't been the poster children of violent irrational outburts?? Niccas commit "shootings" on innocent people every damn day. Cmon now. We gotta be real. This Bible based archaic barbarism ain't parenting and it don't work.

Most black people come from single parent homes and weren’t even planned. Stop blaming the Bible for that. Majority of our ppl don’t even follow the Bible.

Blame the oppressors whose ways you want to emulate so bad, and the women who reward thugs with vagina and children and the thugs who terrorize the community, and the men who smash and dash women and the women who’d rather play the field than settle down and the child like mentality of most urban people due to hiphop and shooking that never seem to want to grow up.

Ever since black people abandoned sound doctrine, in exchange for turn up, it’s gone down hill. Black women let white women trick them into feminism, black men selling out the ppl for cash, blame sin. Sin Sin Sin.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

IT WON'T BE THE FIRST LINE OF DISCIPLINE BUT IT WILL BE ON THE TABLE.

 

[thefloorislava]

Worthless as a punishment. The kid learns nothing except to use violence to solve problems and it builds animosity between the parent and kid. I got the belt multiple times as a kid for dumb reasons all it did was make me an angrier person as an adult.

Just treat your kid like an intelligent human being and explain what they did wrong instead of just beating them for pissing you off. So many times teachable moments and honest mistakes got turned into belt whoopings and it made me a hateful individual

 

[Son Goku]

Bro I’ve administered the occasional pop when necessary. Very rarely but I don’t play with safety shyt like crossing the street. Nothing is ever out of anger though. And believe me, I can get angry . But I go back to how it made me feel as a child to be hit, humiliated and berated. Nothing positive came from that shyt. Black people loooooove to talk about how they got beat as a kid and things turned out alright for them. Nonsense. We say that as a coping mechanism. Quick glance at aggregate homicide and violent crime data shows things did NOT turn out “alright” for us.

If getting spanked by your parents (not beaten to the point of injury) didn't help black folks, I'm sure black folks *not* spanking these little demons will help.