Thoughts on Physical Punishment of Children?

[Sway]

We're not anywhere near as prone as them, that's my point. That's some "white boy shyt". I'm asking what the reason is in your opinion.


And I reiterate the irony of you condemning physical discipline but still out here calling people "nikkas"

Beating the shyt outta a child isn’t the same as saying “nikka”, dude you’re just proving my initial comment to be correct.

 

[Buddy]

Beating the shyt outta a child isn’t the same as saying “nikka”, dude you’re just proving my initial comment to be correct.

You're not answering the question and you're exaggerating the OP. I doubt anyone here is for "beating the outta a child".


You clearly see some psychological harm in whooping a child, so... I would HOPE you could see the psychological harm in generations of people being referred to and referring to one another as "nikkas"

 

[Estarossa]

I will give them the opportunity to correct their behavior but I’m only going to say what I have to say a certain amount of times… if they continue to be disobedient they will be physically disciplined and that’s that.

 

[Coolin']

If you have to resort to beatings, not spankings; I have personally never heard of or seen a scenario where a parent merely spanks their child, then that’s a direct result of the parenting. Yeah, kids will be influenced by outside sources but how it affects them and how they react will generally be by what they’ve seen or endured at home.

 

[Sway]

You're not answering the question and you're exaggerating the OP. I doubt anyone here is for "beating the outta a child".


You clearly see some psychological harm in whooping a child, so... I would HOPE you could see the psychological harm in generations of people being referred to and referring to one another as "nikkas"

I’m not answering that question because it’s RETARDED there’s plenty of gang bangers and other ain’t shyt mfs out here that grew up getting whoopings and still ended up the way they are, stop using that “white people crazy” shyt as justification for passing down dysfunction, cacs are crazy cause them mfs were born crazy.

 

[Buddy]

I’m not answering that question because it’s RETARDED there’s plenty of gang bangers and other ain’t shyt mfs out here that grew up getting whoopings and still ended up the way they are, stop using that “white people crazy” shyt as justification for passing down dysfunction, cacs are crazy cause them mfs were born crazy.

I'm the one advocating for physical harm but somehow you're the one on the attack with ad hominems "nikka babble", "retarded" and all that. Almost as if you don't know how to properly communicate your thoughts.


Shouldn't that be me?

 

[karim]

Are you going to hit your children? Why or why not? I had this argument with one of my homies who said that he will definitely hit his children. He said that's what kept him straight growing up.

I've always been against hitting your children as a form of punishment. Research has found that physical punishment is both ineffective and bad for children's development.

This is all that needs to be said

 

[Sway]

I'm the one advocating for physical harm but somehow you're the one on the attack with ad hominems "nikka babble", "retarded" and all that. Almost as if you don't know how to properly communicate your thoughts.


Shouldn't that be me?

I’m just blunt like that.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I’m not answering that question because it’s RETARDED there’s plenty of gang bangers and other ain’t shyt mfs out here that grew up getting whoopings and still ended up the way they are, stop using that “white people crazy” shyt as justification for passing down dysfunction, cacs are crazy cause them mfs were born crazy.

Not to mention they were lynching us, and burning down our churches when they spanked their kids

You see all these black kids beating up teachers, doing smash and grabs, and we know most of those kids got hit, and probably still do.

 

[Sway]

Not to mention they were lynching us, and burning down our churches when they spanked their kids

You see all these black kids beating up teachers, doing smash and grabs, and we know most of those kids got hit, and probably still do.

Thank you, exactly.

 

[Buddy]

I’m just blunt like that.

That's not blunt it's retaliation. I at least explained why I'm for whoppins.... and that's not the same as beating the shyt out your kids or using as the only method of discipline. I'm just open to it as an option.

 

[VICVALLIN]

I would say that in most, if not all situations, hitting your children is about you as a parent having a release for your anger than it is correcting behavior and teaching alternatives to undesirable actions.

 

[Sway]

That's not blunt it's retaliation. I at least explained why I'm for whoppins.... and that's not the same as beating the shyt out your kids or using as the only method of discipline. I'm just open to it as an option.

“that’s not the same as beating the shyt outl of your kids” The definition of whoop is “To beat, to strike” Also retaliation is basically revenge, you never did anything to warrant revenge so therefore I wasn’t retaliating.

 

[Blown Moon]

When they're too young to have a conversation they'll be getting popped.

When they're old enough to know right from wrong they'll have the opportunity to avoid spankings if they tell the truth. They'll have to fix the problem they caused and might be subjected to physical exercise e.g. suicides, push up, etc but not spankings.

Teenage years the girls won't be touched but they'll be put on restrictions and I'll do things like not speak to them for months if they're particularly hard-headed.


The boys will catch hands from middle school and up. I think spanking young men coming into their manhood compromises that process. They'll just have to deal with me and the older they get the more real the deal will be.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

Beating your kids is the lazy way out for shytty parents who can't be bothered to actually engage with their kids and are too emotionally and intellectually immature to do the job properly.

I grew up this way. Parents that went straight to beating, shouting, punishment whenever I did anything that made them look bad. And that's what it was all about. Not teaching me anything. Not engaging. Not talking. Just this. The only thing being beaten everytime I did something wrong or ran into issues taught me is how to lie better, cover up my errors, run away from my emotions, live a life of inhibited fear of failure or mistakes, which leads to depression, and how to be a cruel a$$hole myself who can't fully see or understand others feelings and has difficulties maintaining meaningful relationships.

And like I said all they truly cared about when it came on to disciplining is that their kid made THEM look bad as "parents" not even always because I did something wrong. If not that it was just to make the job of teaching me things about life quick and easy for them. Cruel for me. Unproductive missed opportunities

And these are the same parents who when their sons are all in jail or on the streets ask stupid questions like "what's wrong with these kids? Who taught them violence is the only way to solve your issues?"

It's wrong and of course we got typical "I luv my muhmuh. she made skrong!" lil immature mama's boys who can't think for themselves, are too lazy to and in denial of their emotions--as they were trained--to figure out their own gathered approach to kids, and plan to revisit their trauma with their own trauma as parents themselves.

Black parents please leave this lazy barbaric parenting in the past where it belongs. Your parents emulated yourn grandarents, who emulated you great grandparents, who got it from your great great grandparents, who's parents learned it from their Binle thumping slave masters. Stop this shyt. It doesn't work and it's a huge source of why so many of our youth fall into lives of destruction and depression. Be an adult. Be mature. Kids are allowed to be immature and crude. Not you. Love and teach your kids patience, self-care, and kindness for the world, not hate and violence. Beating your kids is NOT love. Love should NEVER hurt. EVER.