how long you been married for?
one more month will be 2 years married, 3 years together and ive known this chick since she was 14.
what was the hard way?
where to begin, talked to other chicks basically act like i was single, wasnt there for her during a miscarriage cause i was on some selfish bs, breh, im a fukkin a$$hole and i come home to a beautiful woman who still stands by my side. ive been a shady dude who wasnt real with her 100% and she kept it 100% with everything she has done.
real talk, my wife liked me since she was 14 and i was hittin 21. from 14 to 17, i didnt hit cause i wasnt trying to have the police knocking on my door. so she needed someone to be there for her while she had her ups and down since pops was missing out of her life she since was 5 and was raped and ish, but i was there for her when she needed me. me and her were talking about this now asking why didnt i smash when i had the chance, but i know im a fukked up dude and it would of ruined things and i would of fukked up her head more back then. we talked throughout the years but werent always keeping in touch as i did my thing in other relationships and she did hers. got in contact with her dad, in and out of foster home, both parents signing her away. she was given the fukk you by her family and peeps. i broke up with some psycho chick and she got back in contact with me not to long after. talked to her all night on the day she turned 17. she was just as cute as she was but more grown. no matter what she always came bac to me.
after her bday i went back to me chasing skirts, and she was back to not having anyone. i was trying to wife this bad chick, like one of the baddest, she was on somebody was
and she was good. and ever since then we been together. she is the only girl i could trust knocking up and know she would take care of my seeds cause i was in no mentally mindstate to do a good job at it. i still suck at being a dad, i aint gone lie but she got my back and im forever in debt to this woman
would you recommend marriage?
if you would of asked me a year ago, i would of been on the same bs most of the guys here are on. now, i say marriage is good is if you can find someone who can seriously see all your faults and still be like
. then you golden, if not you might as well start signing away your checks. you gotta be grown up enough mentally to handle it cause there are some days when i just wanna fukkin call it quits. but thats not marriage is. the advice the old man gave is 100 no doubt. i didnt see it at first but thats what your doing, your marrying cause you thnk you can give that person the best life better then anyone else. do i? fukk no, she could do better, but she knows that and i do too, but she loves me and knows through all the bs i put her though, i still got something to offer, marriage is not for everyone and it isnt for you but there will be moments where it is and nothing will take those moments away. i used to think chasing skirts, getting drunk/high and partying it up was the life and sometimes i still think it is, but coming home to a wife who looks good, has dinner cooked and a daughter who smiles and run to you when you walk in the door after the end of the day. There is nothing. that will ever beat that. the starring role in marriage is the wife, but the director is the husband.
I certainly hope that for her, the marriage is about him and not her if he is wholly embracing this mentality.
I ain't one of these 300 pound, old lame acting white guys. If I choose to marry its gonna be one of these fine ass brazilian broads and it's gonna be natural, none of that mail order desperate stuff.
@ getting a mail order bride, how scared are u nikkas
