This femcel wave might be as big as incels now

Jazzy B.

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For many Black men who have options, that weight and shape does matter. Her shape is tragic to say the least. So I am not going to assume she is a swirler based on a stereotype about brothers being willing to date badly built and maintained women. I am pretty sure the brothers she would be open to approaching her are not looking for her in the condition she is presently in.

There is no stigma against bigger black women in the black community.

This is why I'm saying some of y'all have to be cacs. Because even if you prefer slimmer sized black women to pretend that brehs in general have this major problem with bigger/thicker black women just tells me y'all aint around black people.

The woman says she feels invisible to the men that approach HER FRIENDS.

These are NOT black men she is talking about :mjlol:
 

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When she drops the weight and gets a taste of what life is like when a woman is fit she will see the light.

Especially if you have a chill personality 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 You gon be aight lol

Exactly
I’ve seen many big chicks with pretty faces
I be like if only they knew their potential just by losing all that weight
Successful high performing men are not attracted to big women
 

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There is no stigma against bigger black women in the black community.

This is why I'm saying some of y'all have to be cacs. Because even if you prefer slimmer sized black women to pretend that brehs in general have this major problem with bigger/thicker black women just tells me y'all aint around black people.

The woman says she feels invisible to the men that approach HER FRIENDS.

These are NOT black men she is talking about :mjlol:
U definitely full of shyt

nikkas clown fat hoes on the reg

And not only is this bytch fat
She is not cute in the face either

U just a bbw chaser and suprised she has issues dating

Which she really dont have cause she literally said she gets approached by older dudes
 
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There is no stigma against bigger black women in the black community.

This is why I'm saying some of y'all have to be cacs. Because even if you prefer slimmer sized black women to pretend that brehs in general have this major problem with bigger/thicker black women just tells me y'all aint around black people.

The woman says she feels invisible to the men that approach HER FRIENDS.

These are NOT black men she is talking about :mjlol:
nah he's right. The key part was "with options"
 

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All I'ma say is if you choose the single life, man or woman, you better make sure you handle you business before you get older.

Those medicals bills and all that get tough to pay off by yourself when you get old and can't rely on a significant other or kids to help take care of you.

That retirement money ain't enough if you can't cover for medical emergencies, treatment and care. At least old couples can help each other for the most part for free.
 
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There is no stigma against bigger black women in the black community.

This is why I'm saying some of y'all have to be cacs. Because even if you prefer slimmer sized black women to pretend that brehs in general have this major problem with bigger/thicker black women just tells me y'all aint around black people.

The woman says she feels invisible to the men that approach HER FRIENDS.

These are NOT black men she is talking about :mjlol:
Who said brothers in general besides you. You are the one making general statements about what other Black males desire, not me. I pointed out that for those brothers who have options, a woman's size is definitely important. You are the one coming in here with White Supremacy stereotypes about Black men loving obese women. Which exposes what you think about our people and communities more than any claim you have about those of us countering you not being Black because we disagree.

Also, my picture is right in my AVI. So enough with this BS attempt to disregard a dissenting statement by trying to throw out the cac defense.
 

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Facts.

Someone gotta be Randy Brown on the Bulls. Why even hang with a gaggle of stunnas if you are trying to get chose?

She's shooting herself in the foot with that. Next, the game is the game — you know that you have to push the most presentable foot forward if you want to play in an arena where shallow people play.

You will get less than ideal results if you:
- are fat
- barely cute
- are washed
- have a damn septum piercing and look like livestock with that shyt in
- Don’t have diverse experience and a mediocre vocabulary
- don’t have comedic Timing and sense of humor
- wear your self esteem issues on your sleeve

As a man, I'd be happy getting a woman that's happy being a Udonis Haslem on the Heat. Consistency, reliability, winning attitude and 20 plus years of loyalty.


Sign me up :mjcry:
 

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Its the fukking cheat code, what I tell my boys who come to me with this low self esteem bullshyt. The bar is even lower too.

Men dont even have to have a car anymore, when I was growing up that meant ZERO attention.
As soon as a chick found out you had no car, she was disgusted. And for women you can be a bum bytch, and a rich man will still want to retire you. You can also be a stuttering ass decent looking dude with a fine woman taking out card for you in public.

Its just these mother fukkers dont want to try.
False. Egregiously so.
 

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Who said brothers in general besides you. You are the one making general statements about what other Black males desire, not me. I pointed out that for those brothers who have options, a woman's size is definitely important. You are the one coming in here with White Supremacy stereotypes about Black men loving obese women. Which exposes what you think about our people and communities more than any claim you have about those of us countering you not being Black because we disagree.

Also, my picture is right in my AVI. So enough with this BS attempt to disregard a dissenting statement by trying to throw out the cac defense.
Yeah he def comes off like a cac pretending to be Black and saying ignorant shyt about Black men, like it is a fact.
 

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GTFOH

I've purposely tried to talk to the "ugly" friends MANY times and got rejected.

When me and my boys go out and approach groups of females, ALL the females only want the best looking one out of us. Like they will literally ignore the rest of us and focus on just one guy.

I hate this trend of females pretending like guys don't want them.
I haven't been out in a group in a while but it wasn't this extreme. There was usually some degree of leveling out.
 

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U definitely full of shyt

nikkas clown fat hoes on the reg

And not only is this bytch fat
She is not cute in the face either

U just a bbw chaser and suprised she has issues dating

Which she really dont have cause she literally said she gets approached by older dudes
Nah he's right. I'm not sure any group of men accepts obese, out of shape women more than black men. These fat chicks not getting pregnant on their own, somebody is fukking them. At a high rate.

The idea that men have these high standards women need to meet or else is a Coli/internet fabrication. In real life fat chicks are getting fukked and single mothers are getting dated. All the fukking time.
 

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Women don’t like too charismatic or animated men. You shouldn’t be “performing” at anytime. Think Harvey Spector. Very level headed, speaks when needed and leaves mystery. Your friend doesn’t talk much which makes him more intriguing.

Speaking less, holding pauses and controlling the shift of a convo is a skill.
In attempt to pass this as a generality, also very false. Idk how objectively attractive breh's homie is but if you're quiet and not strong at initiating conversations with no haircut and still commanding women's attention you can afford all that mystery shyt.

More often than not a man is better off being extra charismatic and performative than not.
 

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Listened to video....chick is a poster child for 90% of the posters here. Which explains why dudes are really going in so hard on her. Unpopular but factual opinion. You guys do the same damn thing. Complain about women that don't want you. But you just goooootta have them because you're high value although the streets tell you otherwise every day.

KS and folks like him Know. Their. Audience. He would have been made a billionaire in five years if he would have lived. He sold dreams with the best of him.

Stay in your lane and 95% of your life problems go away. Corny but true.
Most men are not holding out for dimes. Y'all gotta stop perpetuating the bullshyt cause you're tired of a topic.
 

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All I'ma say is if you choose the single life, man or woman, you better make sure you handle you business before you get older.

Those medicals bills and all that get tough to pay off by yourself when you get old and can't rely on a significant other or kids to help take care of you.

That retirement money ain't enough if you can't cover for medical emergencies, treatment and care. At least old couples can help each other for the most part for free.
Facts

@Magic Mulatto what are you going to do?
 
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