It honestly aggravates to see men and women bytch about their dating prospects when it doesn’t appear they’re taking steps to improve themselves.
No one owes you a thing
If you look dusty and / or out of shape, why do you expect to attract top tier talent?
Because people are delusional nowadays and no one is checking that shyt.
Back in the day it was understood that if you’re fat you aren’t on the same level as the fit people. So hit the gym or don’t complain.
If you had crazy acne you went to the dermatologist
If your teeth were messed up you got braces.
People fix themselves up just to get noticed. After that you still need a decent personality or no one will keep you around.
Like I said earlier, if you are even half way normal life is about to be a layup in the coming years. More confused folks than ever before. If you can actually commit to a health/diet change, career goals, etc you’re about to be coasting.