This is not about "Blackness" honey -- it's about lineage/ethnicity.
I don't understand why you don't get this.
We have a right to be a unique/separate ethnicity - just like every other Black person. By you not respecting that -- shows you don't respect us. And you allow everyone to celebrate their diversity and culture/ethnicity -- but us. Cause you think it's divisive -- cause you experience racism too. That's Crazy.
I do get it.
No one is denying you of your lineage. I did not tell you to stop celebrating that. Only you are speaking in absolutes.
I think it's divisive because it ignores the bigger picture outside of me and you. Don't flip this as me trying to gain something out of this when I'm not.