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Ku$h Parker

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I think since my most recent break up I've felt a lot of guilt for how things ended. I hurt her. I will say neither of us cheated or were abusive. Ultimately we were incompatible and my biggest sin was being with her too long when I was trying to "change" her. I'm the type to take complete ownership of all my successes but also my failures.

With that being said I've been doing a lot of work to forgive myself, take accountability for the things I did so I can ultimately move forward and become a better person and partner.

Im wit ya here,I failed due to Inconsistency and not Setting Dates and that cut me up cause Ive been busy wit my Own stuff especially now that ive been doing Time with My Son(who has Autism)plus Work so I have been trying to get back to it ....It hurts especially since were comin up on Fathers Day and Im knowing im not gonna get any Gift(I had got her one for Moms Day plus we both lost our Moms)nevermind a HFD Text

But This Thread is all kinds of Helpful,I Love PsychHacks and I got No More Nr Nice Guy,Subtle Art of Not Giving a fukk and The Mountain Is You on deck on Audible as well
 

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I think since my most recent break up I've felt a lot of guilt for how things ended. I hurt her. I will say neither of us cheated or were abusive. Ultimately we were incompatible and my biggest sin was being with her too long when I was trying to "change" her. I'm the type to take complete ownership of all my successes but also my failures.

With that being said I've been doing a lot of work to forgive myself, take accountability for the things I did so I can ultimately move forward and become a better person and partner.
Man that was my last relationship. I feel you.
 

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Surprised I've never opened this thread before, some good stuff in here. 32 y/o black man here, finishing up my doctorate in clinical psychology, with a strong focus on black men's mental health concerns. I just completed my clinical internship, basically the psychologist's version of a medical doctor's residency. Looking to complete the licensure process within the next year, for now been doing some more consulting-oriented work. Willing to answer any questions anyone might have.
 
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