And another thing, yall need to let go of this insecure, outdated idea that unless every black person is on their best behavior for white folks, we're not worthy of respect. That narrative has been circulating in our community for centuries, even going back to slavery, and blacks of all classes and attires still get stereotyped and subjected to racism.
Have decorum based on YOUR standards, not based on a group of people who rely on everything from misinterpreted crime statistics to racial pseudoscience to justify their hatred of us.
Get off your knees, fools.