After seeing my parents marriage fall apart I want no parts in that shyt. She screwed my dad over and breh go he working to 80 when he planned on retiring at 60. I dont feel I have anything to gain
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The whole GMB thing is ridiculous
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Bigblackted4
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nikkas don’t care because they have children out of wedlock and don’t even take care of them. nikkas also scared because they can’t please a woman or have no self esteem when it comes to women. If she leaves or cheats you leave her and get back in the game it’s that simple.
Youseenmywork
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Youseenmywork
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Bigblackted4
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I was speaking on dudes who have the GMB mindset going into marriage. Which a lot of dudes do. Of course women have a real in marriages failing, but women are usually great when they are being lead by a strong man.So it’s all men fault when a marriage falls apart.
Got you
El_Mero_Mero
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Y'all should do a poll seeing who's been married and who's been divorced, or asking the posters how many married and divorced people they know.
Youseenmywork
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The sisterhood isn't gonna like this one. They'll probably skip right past it too much truth.
Johnny Kilroy
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You can have a lady without having the government all up in ya shyt. 
Id rather find one person and marry
Before covid was doing so many first time dates
Before covid was doing so many first time dates
Humble (Not) Mike Tyson
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I agree, a lot of guys are blaming the state of marriage on women "not being worthy."
Just know that's not my position and I'm looking more to highlight societal factors.
Evolve them.
Really, I think marriage should kinda be arraigned in the sense of people in a neighborhood having kids and those kids growing up together in the same environment with similar values. That's not really feasible in American culture.
Nowadays we move, travel and we communicate with people hundreds of miles away and have so many differences to get over.
I don't think it's realistic to expect 25-30 years olds to "settle" down. Our folks came out of high school with a house and car. The economy is different, now.
People are getting married later. No, don't waste anybody's time, but, we need to normalize people waiting to get married later.
As for kids; I'm against "shot-gun weddings." I can impregnate any women. I'm not a good match as a husband to any woman.
Kids should be "raised" communally, anyway. Again, black men legit are in the lives of their kids more than white men--married or not. Even with less resources and more social pressures on us.
We need to get back to trusting people (to an extent) with our kids in some type of community center setting.
A unmarried man isn't a "player." A unmarried woman isn't "damaged-goods."
I just think millennial move too different.
Lord, when Gen-Z ('95 - '12) become adults...
they don't even want to look each other in the face or keep the same cellphone more than a year or talk on phones
Youseenmywork
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Youseenmywork
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