My mother calls me out when I gain like 6lbs. Ionno how she’s around her mother/family and they accept someone in their 20s being that size.
I remember I gained the freshman 15 and my aunt from NY was in town. I excitedly ran upstairs to see her. I walked in the room and she said “what happened to you? No one told you how you look?”
I was 18 so they were being sensitive. Leave it to my NY aunt to be like “No you need to tell her. Listen, you can’t do that. You’re young. Take the weight off.”
She was right, tho
People just setting their kids up for failure letting them get to that size.
It simply isn’t healthy.