Giving away your vote without TANGIBLES is a negative action that empowers the white supremacist party you aligned with. 60 years of empowering with nothing in return, friend.
Unlike you I live in the real world. Either Kamala or Trump is going to win. I ask myself which one I'd feel better winning and vote for them. I'm not naive enough to think abstaining from voting will accomplish anything.
In the last election 34% of the population didn't vote. When you do the same you just add to their number. They don't get any special attention they get ignored. Your vote isn't leverage to get concessions. When you don't vote you empower the side furthest from your ideology.