The "Single" Boyfriend article

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I know it may sound crazy but, if your chick knows other women are after you, and your faithful while able to hold down resposibilities, you have a higher chance of keeping your relationship strong, then someone who is just there when around women. Women always want what others want. It will also keep her sex drive strong. The same for men, unless he can't handle other men eyeing his lady. If you have issues with control or jealousy, or hang out where guys are disrespectful towards sexy women so you have to fight all the time, you better have your lady looking like she just got through cooking, and have a boring relationship as time goes on. This boring shyt is why people cheat. Just having people want you or your mate is enough to keep that sexual energy strong between the two of you.
 

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:snoop:This is advice for simps from a simp. If my girl cant handle me going out without her around females, giving hugs to female friends, or having privacy on my personal devices that means she's insecure. To those that dont know, there is no satisfying an insecure female, and if you fall into her guilt trips you'll end up single anyway. Once she has emasculated you she no longer is attracted or respects the bytch you have become, and throws you out for some douchebag.
 

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Anyway, what he's preached to me is about freedom. He said that if he wanted to go to a party then he should be able to, as long as he's faithful. He says that he didn't do anything so why should he be in prison? In other words as long as he's faithful he can do as he pleases.
at some point you have to grow up though. put it like this if you had a kid would you take care of your child exclusively or would you go out and be with other people's kids whenever you felt like it? that might sound weird but what happens in relationships on a neurobiological level is the brain releases chemicals that make you want to be with one person exclusively or pair bond. falling in love has a certain chemical makeup. mothers do this with their children when they give birth the brain releases a huge surge of chemicals tht make mothers want to take care of their baby and not a whole bunch of random babies that arent hers. she becomes committed to just that one baby of hers. same thing in relationships except where in child birth the brain physically forces women to bond with their own children by releasing certain chemicals, in relationships some people's brains never actually release the chemicals necessary to fall in love and stay committed to just one person like a mother to her baby. most people never fall in love as a result because its so hard to make the brain release those chemicals since they may have a lot of issues and things like that which blocks the process ie self hate or trust issues. but at some point we all have to grow up though
 

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what does this even mean? How can she be "your" girl if there's no relationship? This isn't middle school where you have to check a check box on a "do we go together?" note. The person you are sleeping with and spending your free time with is your significant other. All the semantics is just a bunch of bullshyt. If you don't love her and you don't want her then quit wasting her time with these games. Usually men who do this are just selfish and they want to fukc other women.

Claim her breh. You don't have to marry her but let her know she's yours.
:dahell: maybe she's ok with the deal. She's a grown woman, let her choose what she wants in her life. If dude is keeping it real and she wants something else but still accepting the situation then she's the one not keeping it real and she's the one wasting her own time, not him.
 

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Relationship rules are not universal, it's up to the two individuals romantically involved with one another how far they can take their romance outside of the relationship. Some allow full-out swinging, some won't even allow a close hug, it's up to them.

Problems arise when the two assume what is acceptable instead of setting down specific ground rules
cosign and this is basically how i feel about the article.
 
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Because its fun and keeps your senses sharp. I will never stop flirting.

Senses sharp? for what? Are you planning on divorcing/breaking up?
All that energy should be put into your relationship to come up with ways to keep your relationship fresh
If you flirting to fawk side poosay, then ok
But to do it, just for the heck of it don't make sense. You insecure bruh?
 

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I know it may sound crazy but, if your chick knows other women are after you, and your faithful while able to hold down resposibilities, you have a higher chance of keeping your relationship strong, then someone who is just there when around women. Women always want what others want. It will also keep her sex drive strong. The same for men, unless he can't handle other men eyeing his lady. If you have issues with control or jealousy, or hang out where guys are disrespectful towards sexy women so you have to fight all the time, you better have your lady looking like she just got through cooking, and have a boring relationship as time goes on. This boring shyt is why people cheat. Just having people want you or your mate is enough to keep that sexual energy strong between the two of you.

There isn't anything crazy about it, this is 100% correct
 
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