The "Single" Boyfriend article

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I don't like the article. Hungout with an older friend of mine from Africa last night; he's like 37, I'm 21 and he's pretty new to America; 6 months new.

Anyway, what he's preached to me is about freedom. He said that if he wanted to go to a party then he should be able to, as long as he's faithful. He says that he didn't do anything so why should he be in prison? In other words as long as he's faithful he can do as he pleases.

So I don't think it has anything to do with being a "single boyfriend" it's more about recognizing that you're in a relationship, but you're also an individual with your own interests and no one should be able to prevent you from pursuing those interests.

 

[Da Jungles]

Is it really though? What if you wanted to eat more cake?

Then get more cake

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

He also mentioned that most women are insecure and just want to control you.

 

[big bun]

He also mentioned that most women are insecure and just want to control you.

I really think women test men at the beginning of a relationship in order to see how much they can have control. It is up to the man to set that limit from the gate. If he doesn't, then she will have ad much control as she pleases.

 

[Brofato]

Damn, a lot of that was me a while back. I even did that shyt to girls I was moving into more serious territory with without dating them so I thought it wasn't as bad.

I even dropped that line about me just being charming and "nice". So for me, that shyt is on point.

But what you don’t know is that every female you flirt with, and every person that sees you flirting with her, is one less person who’s going to give your woman the respect she deserves for holding you down.

Never thought about that although it has come up, I think with certain girls. I don't know about respect being lost but they certainly kinda felt bad for the girls.

 

[Deadpool1986]

But if you eat the cake.... you no longer have a cake to eat

yo!!!

 

[Ice Cold]

I had the honor of witnessing one of you first-hand growing up. She earned a degree, started her own business, and raised 4 children by herself thus proving that her God was bigger than her trials. I’m her youngest and I couldn’t be more proud to call her my mother. No longer to be confused with “baby mama”.

yup your right

here he is caping for sinlge moms
http://derrickjaxn.com/this-is-not-for-baby-mamas/

close this thread

Spoiler

nah keep it open I want the daps

 

[Mickey Kane]

Struggling to see exactly what he's saying here is incorrect.

If you're in a relationship, there is certain behaviour that you won't enact even if it falls short of f*cking.

 

[Ain't That Something]

Then get more cake

What if they ran out of the kind you like

 

[Ghost Utmost]

If a guy is keeping his pants zipped then what else do you want from him? Same with a female. If she hugs people and shakes her ass to make people look but doesn't take her panties off then no harm no foul.

 

[skeetsinternal]

I don't like the article. Hungout with an older friend of mine from Africa last night; he's like 37, I'm 21 and he's pretty new to America; 6 months new.

Anyway, what he's preached to me is about freedom. He said that if he wanted to go to a party then he should be able to, as long as he's faithful. He says that he didn't do anything so why should he be in prison? In other words as long as he's faithful he can do as he pleases.

So I don't think it has anything to do with being a "single boyfriend" it's more about recognizing that you're in a relationship, but you're also an individual with your own interests and no one should be able to prevent you from pursuing those interests.

That pretty much how I operate with my fiance. She allows me to be me but at the same time I always have in my mind that I am in a relationship. We maintain a level of respect for each other as well as establish and maintain boundaries. I am done with chasing ass and working on building something wonderful with my significant other.

 

[SuikodenII]

Relationship rules are not universal, it's up to the two individuals romantically involved with one another how far they can take their romance outside of the relationship. Some allow full-out swinging, some won't even allow a close hug, it's up to them.

Problems arise when the two assume what is acceptable instead of setting down specific ground rules

 

[Brofato]

If a guy is keeping his pants zipped then what else do you want from him? Same with a female. If she hugs people and shakes her ass to make people look but doesn't take her panties off then no harm no foul.

What if she shakes her ass then takes her panties off but it's on the internet?

 

[1thouwow]

I was doing this to my latest girl. I never technically cheated but I had to let her go and let her no I ain't ready for that committed shyt.

 

[Klyk21]

Why is the article only addressing the men though?! I can give several examples of women (some even married) that have cheated/cheating on their spouses at the moment. We can't act like in 2013 women don't have "phantom" dikks out here guys