The rich gets richer and poor gets poorer dynamic is reflected in modern dating game as well

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Why do people say this with no data to back it up?

Especially when the data runs counter to the "you need to put more effort into it" school of thought.

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Less Sex - Americans are having less sex — and researchers want to know why
Less Sex among young people - A 'failure to launch': Why young people are having less sex
Less Kids born - US births are down again, after the COVID baby bust and rebound | Brookings
Less marriages - Is Your State in Step with National Marriage and Divorce Trends?.

"Oh everyone is lazy..."
"If they got off the apps..."

smh
 

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Especially when the data runs counter to the "you need to put more effort into it" school of thought.

Aggregate level

Less Sex - Americans are having less sex — and researchers want to know why
Less Sex among young people - A 'failure to launch': Why young people are having less sex
Less Kids born - US births are down again, after the COVID baby bust and rebound | Brookings
Less marriages - Is Your State in Step with National Marriage and Divorce Trends?.

"Oh everyone is lazy..."
"If they got off the apps..."

smh
A lot of people live in solipsistic worlds and assume everything is equal when things never have been
 

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Oh everyone is lazy..."

Alot of people are lazy though. Big difference between eating well and not eating at all

Putting yourself out there requires effort and self awareness. A lot of people lack both.

You’ve got guys in here acting as if you need to be 5’11 to find a woman.
 

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Alot of people are lazy though. Big difference between eating well and not eating at all

Putting yourself out there requires effort and self awareness. A lot of people lack both.

You’ve got guys in here acting as if you need to be 5’11 to find a woman.
exactly
Getting sex from multiple requires time and effort

Why do we need data for this ?
It’s always been like this
 

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Because data disproves bro science like what ya'll are talking about. Information fights off ignorance.

Bro maybe all that data is the fukking problem

nikkas too busy reading graphs online about how women only like men above 5’11, don’t date below this income and how many responses White men get responses.

Maybe enacting some “Bro Science” might be helpful for some of these guys. Bro Science will tell you get off your ass go get in shape, socialise and do something and see what happens.
 

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Especially when the data runs counter to the "you need to put more effort into it" school of thought.

Aggregate level

Less Sex - Americans are having less sex — and researchers want to know why
Less Sex among young people - A 'failure to launch': Why young people are having less sex
Less Kids born - US births are down again, after the COVID baby bust and rebound | Brookings
Less marriages - Is Your State in Step with National Marriage and Divorce Trends?.

"Oh everyone is lazy..."
"If they got off the apps..."

smh

Bootstraps method without specific guidance are sacrifices going in vein.
 

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That dude has above average charisma, "game", and might even have dark triad characteristics (the drug use and impulsive behavior).

What about dudes who don't have the gift of gab tho or aren't super charismatic? There were always smooth talkers and macks in the community and we looked up to them but now we expect the average dude to be a smooth talker. A lot of our grandfathers weren't charismatic like that, they were solid dudes who worked hard and that was enough.

In today's climate, the 9-5 non-white male without clout or status deserves to suffer, according to these superficial azz people in this thread.

and real "game" that builds charisma will never be taught by these crabs-in-a-barrel posters in here.
 

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This is why sex work should be legal because it’s going to get crazy if this goes unchecked. This redpill shyt and incels are not a good mix.
These dudes want women to want them for them. If paying for p*ssy would solve their problems they would already be doing it, not waiting for it to become legal.

They not paying for p*ssy because they feel it’s beneath them not because of some great level of respect they have for the law.

This ain’t to you but in general:

What I wanna know tho is why are yall dudes who brag about how much you’re eating care so much bout the men who aren’t? It’s been years now of the same dudes making the same threads. I rarely see the dudes who struggle make threads complaining bout the dating game, it’s the ones who brag about how easy it is to eat nowadays. Then it’s the bragging dudes who post the same things in these threads. So why not just eat? Y’all think bout dudes who ain’t eating more than they think bout you :dwillhuh:
 

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Bro maybe all that data is the fukking problem

nikkas too busy reading graphs online about how women only like men above 5’11, don’t date below this income and how many responses White men get responses.

Maybe enacting some “Bro Science” might be helpful for some of these guys. Bro Science will tell you get off your ass go get in shape, socialise and do something and see what happens.
So you're under the assumption that people haven't been doing something because they aren't successful? Or do you know for a fact people aren't doing anything. Failure is a thing.
 
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