Peace. Keep this in mind when searching. If she can give you peace. She’s a keeper & you’ll appreciate this when you get older.
As for looking for someone, switch up your environment, even if it makes you uncomfortable. Take the time learn new skills & different activities centered around the type of women you like. Volunteer at a non-profit. Just keep talking to women, but don’t put too much pressure on the needing to “find” someone. Just enjoy the process.
Edit: I’ll add another point.You might want to actually get off of social media. It’ll destroy your mind and have you thinking every meet should look like an IG model. When majority of the women in this world are average.
This sounds very reasonable. Social media is the devil. It's programming people of all ages with toxic ideas.
Men don't have to be wealthy or GQ models.
Good health (physical/mental), cleanliness, good hygiene, healthy attitude, kindness go along way.
Jewelry, tattoos, expensive clothes don't mean shyt to most women. Clean clothes, good hygiene, good health mean so much more.
A nice woman working a regular job isn't going to turn down a nice man also working a regular job.
Most woman aren't expecting a man to finance her lifestyle or even pay her bills. It's just not realistic.
A woman can tell when men don't truly like or respect women. That's a turn off and scary. Most women would rather have a healthy relationship/marriage, than a baby daddy and child support.
Prevent pregnancies with 100% condom use.
Men who don't want children should NOT be releasing their sperm in or near a woman's body.
As far as STDs, get tested before sex, and during relationships, share results and use condoms. Even if a woman is on BC. Use condoms. Always always use condoms.
When I got my IUD, my doctor told me to still always use condoms. It's easier and safer for me to make sure I don't get pregnant (because no BC is 100%)
If you hate condoms, learn about condoms, lube, dental dams, gloves, etc for safer sex. There are lube/condom combinations that can help it feel very close to like there's no condom.
Free testing is available in most cities.
Get Tested | National HIV, STD, and Hepatitis Testing
Some women just want sex, some want relationships, but most women don't want to be stuck with a fatherless child or mentally abused by a man who thinks women need to be treated like pit bulls.
No one should be treating their partner like shyt or playing mind games.
If a woman is abusive or disrespectful WALK AWAY and block her number.
Plenty of women want to get laid too.
Be clear with your expectations and always use condoms.
Sometimes I read here and I get sad that some men are too hard on themselves OR just really don't like women.
Stop thinking you can't get a woman because you're not: tall, GQ looking or rich.
If you have good hygiene, good health (and make sure you both get tested) and are kind, you can break down the boxes at Albertsons and get a woman who will honestly love you.
I can hold a basic conversation with a woman when it comes to small talk but flirting or wooing is something I'm definitely stunted at.