Bigblackted4
Superstar
Only get attached to kids if you know that you can handle that it might not be forever. When they break up with you the kids also break up with you.
The Other Guy, Superthread: The Etiquette Of Relationships With Women Who Have Kids...
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RickyDiBiase
The Sword of Jesus of Nazareth
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
Rename this thread: “Russell Wilson Disciples.”
Seriously though, I get some people would rather have something than nothing. But I’d stay single than to ever seriously date a woman with children.
To each their own though.
Seriously though, I get some people would rather have something than nothing. But I’d stay single than to ever seriously date a woman with children.
To each their own though.
hit dawgs
RickyDiBiase
The Sword of Jesus of Nazareth
you a real man breh
taking on women's unnecessary stress and problems
hit dawgs
My wife didn't have any children when we got married.
However, I have a family member who has children, who lost their father due to blood cots, and now she's raising two kids, technically a single mother
See, when you act like an uptight fakkity know-it-all you end up looking goofy, because you truly don't know everybody's story.
And ya'll wonder why the black community is in the state it is.
I understand that situation breh. Don't take anything I say here seriously tho
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
I’ll be honest, every single mom of the dozens I’ve encountered had “issues” with their kids dad except for one. It was constantly a revolving combination of issues. The father not getting the kids consistently. Lack of financial support. Jealously because your the new guy. Drama between the kids father and his new woman towards the mom, which indirectly affects you.
I’d say about 95% of the time it’s not worth it ESPECIALLY if she has more than one kid.
I have one kid myself and I refuse to seriously entertain a single mom. I’d smash but I can’t see myself willing ADDING several more mouths to feed that’s not my blood. I wanna take my son to a ball game, well I can’t just take him now I gotta take him and her kids. My son wants McDonald’s, well gotta buy her kids McDonald’s too. He wants new J’s, oh gotta buy her kids shoes too. And for what? End up breaking up in a year or two. All that money down the drain. Nah. F*ck that.
I’d say about 95% of the time it’s not worth it ESPECIALLY if she has more than one kid.
I have one kid myself and I refuse to seriously entertain a single mom. I’d smash but I can’t see myself willing ADDING several more mouths to feed that’s not my blood. I wanna take my son to a ball game, well I can’t just take him now I gotta take him and her kids. My son wants McDonald’s, well gotta buy her kids McDonald’s too. He wants new J’s, oh gotta buy her kids shoes too. And for what? End up breaking up in a year or two. All that money down the drain. Nah. F*ck that.
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
Yeah, that’s what’s crazy to me. I’ve seen blended families work when there are equal kids apiece. But imagine entering a relationship with one child and she has two/three? Expenses are tripled/quadrupled already.
Man, I don’t know how some people do it. I will say, I’ve seen middle-upper class women with no children willing to marry men who already have children. The opposite is rarely true.
So I will say it’s easier for single fathers to date than single mothers. Call it a double standard but hey, that’s life.
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Yeah, that’s what’s crazy to me. I’ve seen blended families work when there are equal kids apiece. But imagine entering a relationship with one child and she has two/three? Expenses are tripled/quadrupled already.
Man, I don’t know how some people do it. I will say, I’ve seen middle-upper class women with no children willing to marry men who already have children. The opposite is rarely true.
So I will say it’s easier for single fathers to date than single mothers. Call it a double standard but hey, that’s life.
Agreed. That seems to be changing however based on the women I’ve encountered and the conversations that were had. Back when I was on Hinge earlier this year there were ALOT of women that said “no kids” in the bio. These were all early 30s to mid 40s professional women. That’s not to say for the right guy they’d make an exception.
I will say that most of those women didn’t have kids themselves.
Hoodoo Child
The Urban Legend
One thing about @murksiderock he gone hit you with a few paragraphs, whether you like it or not.
The premise of the thread seem solid, and I'm always open to some free game (especially if it's from someone who's actually lived/living it).
I haven't linked up with a single mom in a minute. The ones in my pool usually reach out to me first, on some "Make me feel good" Monster's Ball shyt lol
The premise of the thread seem solid, and I'm always open to some free game (especially if it's from someone who's actually lived/living it).
I haven't linked up with a single mom in a minute. The ones in my pool usually reach out to me first, on some "Make me feel good" Monster's Ball shyt lol