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Tinder is escort central. had to stop using that shyt. and sometimes them hoes try to get you to manage them, it feels too much like a setup when a white girl from barrie living in an apartment and has obvious escort photos and lingo on her bio tries to get you to date her after you fukk. :shaq:or so my friend tell me. he's a wild boy.
never went back to tinder. That app is like the Ali Express of dating :russ:

MAD fake or bogus ass hoes on there
 

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I know a few girls who know they probably won’t be a mother or wife
They just travel to turkey Qatar back and forth cause they got shyt load off $$

That’s kinda sad
Especially when she’s been a good women all her life

I described my cousin :mjcry:
Trust I know quite a few of them and they gotta take a looooong look in the mirror

Good woman is subjective there’s more to that story in many cases :mjpls:

No disrespect to your cousin :whoa:
 

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Damn last couple of pages got me reflecting a bit. My cuz and one of my good buddies from high school just got married, both with good jobs and what seems to be great women. Meanwhile I've been trying to make it money and relationship wise and it hasn't been popping the last couple of years. My homeboy passing away in his sleep, got me :mjcry: for the past couple of months m, unable to do extra-curricular shyt like dating. Not even sure what I want to do with that part of my life, 27th year been more difficult than ever. I got a lot of shyt I should be grateful for, and work 2 okay jobs, but I've never been so lost. Really trying to take a month long spiritual vacation in like Indonesia or some shyt.

Sorry to ramble just wanted to get some thoughts out. Not depressed but I'm annoyed with how shyt going in life, but you older brehs give me hope
 

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Damn last couple of pages got me reflecting a bit. My cuz and one of my good buddies from high school just got married, both with good jobs and what seems to be great women. Meanwhile I've been trying to make it money and relationship wise and it hasn't been popping the last couple of years. My homeboy passing away in his sleep, got me :mjcry: for the past couple of months m, unable to do extra-curricular shyt like dating. Not even sure what I want to do with that part of my life, 27th year been more difficult than ever. I got a lot of shyt I should be grateful for, and work 2 okay jobs, but I've never been so lost. Really trying to take a month long spiritual vacation in like Indonesia or some shyt.

Sorry to ramble just wanted to get some thoughts out. Not depressed but I'm annoyed with how shyt going in life, but you older brehs give me hope
self-care is important fam. help yourself by all means! :salute:
 

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Damn last couple of pages got me reflecting a bit. My cuz and one of my good buddies from high school just got married, both with good jobs and what seems to be great women. Meanwhile I've been trying to make it money and relationship wise and it hasn't been popping the last couple of years. My homeboy passing away in his sleep, got me :mjcry: for the past couple of months m, unable to do extra-curricular shyt like dating. Not even sure what I want to do with that part of my life, 27th year been more difficult than ever. I got a lot of shyt I should be grateful for, and work 2 okay jobs, but I've never been so lost. Really trying to take a month long spiritual vacation in like Indonesia or some shyt.

Sorry to ramble just wanted to get some thoughts out. Not depressed but I'm annoyed with how shyt going in life, but you older brehs give me hope
Brother I was at a similar crossroads at that age. I’m over a decade older than you.


It’s never ever too late. I promise you with the right attitude and intensity towards the goal YOU want to achieve you can be whatever YOU want to be.

Don’t look at your peers and how fast they’re advancing this is not a race.

Take time to write down what brings you happiness and pride. A job or two currently is a means to an end.

I can say so much more. Made plenty of mistakes, stumbled, fell, and as at the absolute lowest point before and i wouldn’t change a thing.

Let’s go!
 

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Girl broke free from the shackles of Sharia law and just let herself be consumed by ALL the debaucary she was witheld from: rails on monday, liquid g for tuesdays, henny on wednesday, hetero dikk on thursday, lesbo fun on fridays, tranny dikk on saturday, weed to mellow on sundays.... rinse and repeat.. :russ:
:ohhh:goddamn...smh
 

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Brother I was at a similar crossroads at that age. I’m over a decade older than you.


It’s never ever too late. I promise you with the right attitude and intensity towards the goal YOU want to achieve you can be whatever YOU want to be.

Don’t look at your peers and how fast they’re advancing this is not a race.

Take time to write down what brings you happiness and pride. A job or two currently is a means to an end.

I can say so much more. Made plenty of mistakes, stumbled, fell, and as at the absolute lowest point before and i wouldn’t change a thing.

Let’s go!
FACTS! The climb from nothing to something YOU achieved out of your own mind's conception is the most fulfilling feeling a man can feel short of creating a life from his own loins.
 

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Damn last couple of pages got me reflecting a bit. My cuz and one of my good buddies from high school just got married, both with good jobs and what seems to be great women. Meanwhile I've been trying to make it money and relationship wise and it hasn't been popping the last couple of years. My homeboy passing away in his sleep, got me :mjcry: for the past couple of months m, unable to do extra-curricular shyt like dating. Not even sure what I want to do with that part of my life, 27th year been more difficult than ever. I got a lot of shyt I should be grateful for, and work 2 okay jobs, but I've never been so lost. Really trying to take a month long spiritual vacation in like Indonesia or some shyt.

Sorry to ramble just wanted to get some thoughts out. Not depressed but I'm annoyed with how shyt going in life, but you older brehs give me hope

Rip to your breh. my condolences to you and his family - may his name live on for generations :salute:

We all run our own race, just because someone is married or has a great job doesn't mean they are more accomplished than you. It's easy to look at social media and feel some type of way because someone has this or that and you don't.

I know a few people I thought had the perfect marriage , in church a few kids the house and all that and now they are divorced. Growing up I always thought I'd be married by like 25, yet here I am 37 and I've never been married.

Happiness has to come from within not from a woman. Like 5 years ago I was engaged and thought I was about to be married but she changed her mind and I had to start from scratch so to say. But we keep pushing! When your single with no kids you answer to no one you can work those two jobs, you can travel,, you can go on 10 dates in a week

I'm 37 at 27 I was making like 17 a hour, travelling 2.5 hours on the bus to work a job I hated. 10 years later I'm reporting directly to the VP of HR for the second biggest hospital network in the province. And I'm not even saying it to brag or anything. I don't even have fancy degrees or 6 certs all I did is work hard and thankfully found favour with people. If people heard how I got this job it's only by the blessings of God and that's it.

If you want to do that vacation do it man. I know for me when i was struggling feeling down a vacation helped me greatly.

No Lie the job I have right now no one will believe me but literally this job was created just for me.
 

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fukk around and find out....nurses breh, rn, rpn, etc...health secretaries, brehhhh it's a cold world out here man. you've got to vet your lady extra hard. angel faces demonic hustles. and better believe she's not just going on dates with these men, they paying to fukk her.

In the past year I've been out with two nurses and a doctor.

Both nurses invited me back to their place the first time we met (Nothing happened though but temptation was high). And the only reason was because we worked at the same place and I didn't know until later in the date and well can't risk my job.
 

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Separated 2019, divorced this year, the last three years between that, pandemic, me starting my own business, got a daughter etc

fukking destroyed me and made me a new man

But that's another story for another day

In the new world I'm 38, divorced lawyer making bank, raising my girl, fukking these hoes and planning my world takeover

But in the meantime Rani got me every two Sundays 😂

Would you get married again?
 

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Fam its scary how women in that 37+ age range that its officially over for.

Its over over. Like you will be living out your old years alone. Word to KS.

Damn.

I'm 37 and when I was using apps I'd go 25-33.

Meh when you're 45, 46 etc. you can still canoodle and cavort with a 35 year old
 

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Damn last couple of pages got me reflecting a bit. My cuz and one of my good buddies from high school just got married, both with good jobs and what seems to be great women. Meanwhile I've been trying to make it money and relationship wise and it hasn't been popping the last couple of years. My homeboy passing away in his sleep, got me :mjcry: for the past couple of months m, unable to do extra-curricular shyt like dating. Not even sure what I want to do with that part of my life, 27th year been more difficult than ever. I got a lot of shyt I should be grateful for, and work 2 okay jobs, but I've never been so lost. Really trying to take a month long spiritual vacation in like Indonesia or some shyt.

Sorry to ramble just wanted to get some thoughts out. Not depressed but I'm annoyed with how shyt going in life, but you older brehs give me hope

Bruh your life starts at 30

You have time to figure shyt out, think things through, plot and make different moves etc

Life is a marathon my friend, not a 100 metre dash
 
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