The Official Joe Budden Podcast Thread

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I disagree. There's levels to it. Like I'm going to be pissed and shyt gone be over regardless. But at least you can somewhat respect if it's a nikka that looks better, has more money or just doper than you. But if she fukks with some corny ass lame nikka it's hard to reconcile that in your head and make sense of it. My relationship with my BM ended due to cheating. We remained friends through coparenting. She eventually married the guy she cheated on me with. When I met dude he was the goofiest corniest MF ever. Had me looking at her like "you fukked up what we had for HIM". What was even funnier is she wanted to cheat on him to get back with me which let me know she's still a cheater so I turned it down.
I completely disagree. I don't respect any of it. I don't care if it's Lebron James or the nikka who works at AT&T front desk
 

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I completely disagree. I don't respect any of it. I don't care if it's Lebron James or the nikka who works at AT&T front desk
That's what I'm saying. It's not level of acceptance. What I'm saying is my level of anger though is what can change. The relationship is done regardless. I'm already gone be pissed off. But then to find out it was some bum goofy nikka just makes it that much worse and leaves me even more pissed out.

Or look at a different scenario. That's like saying if you found out your spouse was cheating with your spouse or your brother or even your enemy. That's gone be an even more amplified level of anger. Who she cheated with absolutely will matter.
 

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How is a "better" nikka smutting ya girl out any better? That's an indictment in you and ya lifestyle
I forget nikkas like to play super nikka online like they got no weaknesses. We ALL got areas in life we could do better in. Maybe your money is low and she got with a nikka with more money. Maybe you out of shape and she got with an in shape nikka. I ain't saying it makes the cheating better. I'm saying it makes it more understandable at least that she upgraded in someway that she got with somebody that got something you can't provide. Compared to if she got with somebody that you think you are better than in every way.

I'm a logical thinking person. Nothing fukks me up more than situations that I can't at least see the logic in. So like I said above, cheating is cheating and the relationship is over regardless. But seeing that she cheated with a lesser nikka is going to make it sting that much more. When you get cheated on all those thoughts go though your head wondering why she cheated or how she could do that to you.
 

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Right. If I find out my girl cheated, who the nikka is isn't gonna make me less angry or insulted.

Basically it's the never ending worship of money/access/success on the show. These dudes shyt on Diddy one week and then whip out the "if you have money you can do whatever you want and I won't be mad" arguments the next week.

Bottom line is that nothing is a moral or character issue to them. Everything is for sale. And if you disagree, well...that's your truth, but my truth is different. When you think about it...I wouldn't be able to be friends with these nikkas because they have no real principles. Cheating up/down is irrelevant. I don't cheat because it's wrong, and I hold myself to a certain standard. The issue isn't whether I love my girlfriend or if we're having problems or if I'm falling out of love. The issue is MY honor: I've made a commitment and the only way I can break that is by ending the relationship.
 
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