That’s cool. But if the dude just doesn’t wanna go because he isn’t comfortable that should just be respected.I see both sides. I definitely think dudes be way too uptight and worried about being in a gay establishment but on the flip if somebody don't want to be in there that's their prerogative. In the times I've been to gay clubs or drag clubs it really wasn't shyt to worry about and the straight women in there were mad cool.