The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating

[Yup]

That's a extra 30K a year you would have to build something special where maybe yall retire 20-30 years earlier than expected and neither one of yall are working...But go ahead and sneeze at that and enjoy living alone in your house you can say paid for all by yourself,enjoy those vacations you on alone

Not being sarcastic,some women would rather do that than be the breadwinner,some would rather date white men they don't find attractive,some will do it the way I suggest....don't blow off the option I said like no woman can be happy doing that...Funny you quick to salute these women pushing the "white savior" option though as a means to black womens happiness...Guess that's the only way a black woman could be happy in your eyes

And 30K supports kids because you make 80K...but I guess you not thinking about a lifetime though.

If you think that's a fair exchange...that's on you, but I do not. BW are told that they should be ok working with a huge income disparity, on top of taking care of the household. If you think men/bm pull their weight in the household a lot of times then you are kidding yourself Despite the modern life that we supposedly live in most people still observe and have many traditional values.

 

[Yup]

That's a extra 30K a year you would have to build something special where maybe yall retire 20-30 years earlier than expected and neither one of yall are working...But go ahead and sneeze at that and enjoy living alone in your house you can say paid for all by yourself,enjoy those vacations you on alone

Not being sarcastic,some women would rather do that than be the breadwinner,some would rather date white men they don't find attractive,some will do it the way I suggest....don't blow off the option I said like no woman can be happy doing that...Funny you quick to salute these women pushing the "white savior" option though as a means to black womens happiness...Guess that's the only way a black woman could be happy in your eyes

And 30K supports kids because you make 80K...but I guess you not thinking about a lifetime though.

In addition, these are the type of ,'threats' that some of y'all give that tells me that the advice that you are giving is disingenuous. It's more so mockery rather than hearing out the other side.

 

[Still Benefited]

how do you know she is not attracted to white men?

Those women are going to do what they are going to do so im not talking about them,but theres an agenda telling black women they need to give white men a chance....So obviously they are speaking to black women who aren't really attracted to white men....Because black women who already are don't need to be told or have a list ran down to them of all the reasons they wont find a good black men and why they need to give white men a try.

 

[Yup]

so this is determined by how money each partner makes?



so if she making 80k and im pulling 250K i can tell her toin the kitchen?

What I am saying what do bw gain out of this? Other than a man? Are black American men so few in earning decent incomes/professional circles?

 

[Canon]

What I am saying what do bw gain out of this? Other than a man? Are black American men so few in earning decent incomes/professional circles?

when did black women in mass start earning decent incomes and running in professional circles?

 

[Yup]

Those women are going to do what they are going to do so im not talking about them,but theres an agenda telling black women they need to give white men a chance....So obviously they are speaking to black women who aren't really attracted to white men....Because black women who already are don't need to be told or have a list ran down to them of all the reasons they wont find a good black men and why they need to give white men a try.

The same way that bm were not dating ww in the 50s due to the racist laws of the country, I believe the same way bw find some wm they do find attractive but would not consider due to what people will say etc... I believe that far more bw are attracted to wm than they admit to themselves.

 

[Yup]

when did black women in mass start earning decent incomes and running in professional circles?

I am talking about the ones that are. Arent there more women than men?

 

[Deluuxe]

What I am saying what do bw gain out of this? Other than a man? Are black American men so few in earning decent incomes/professional circles?

Working with your logic (which makes no sense)...

Take your non black men (who makes same wage as you) and have your mixed kids
Take a black man who makes a little less and have a black family

Lets say both men are good respectable people

which would you take?

 

[Canon]

I am talking about the ones that are. Arent there more women than men?

 

[freetroit]

When you get married your suppose to combine incomes

Can you raise a family on a combined family income of 70000?

If not I guess love is too expensive for a black couple

 

[Still Benefited]

In addition, these are the type of ,'threats' that some of y'all give that tells me that the advice that you are giving is disingenuous. It's more so mockery rather than hearing out the other side.

You mean like black women mocking black men on a panel?I meant what i said,sum women genuinely are cool if they die alone....I wasn't really even mocking,you just said some interesting things. You lowkey acted like what I said was ridiculous when there are clearly women who are breadwinners and are happy being it.If its good enuff for Oprah,women making 80K can handle it... Obviously all women wont be happy doing that,but my question is why is this white savior agenda being pushed as the ONLY way for a black woman to find happiness?....The funny thing is that it doesn't even go to latino or Asian men a lot of time,it goes straight to "black women need to give white men a chance"....if you don't find that funny at all I have no choice but to question what you are up to exactly

I even saluted the woman on the panel who kindve said what I said,except for im acknowledging the man may not ever make what the woman makes in my scenario.....but the issue is women like her haven't been quite as visible as these women pushing wenching

 

[freetroit]

Love is too expensive

fukk it

 

[AAKing23]

What I am saying what do bw gain out of this? Other than a man? Are black American men so few in earning decent incomes/professional circles?

It seems like you're only looking at the financial/material gain of the relationship and not the emotional/spiritual gain of the relationship. It depends on what you value more. All we're saying is that there are men out there who would be great spouses despite what they lack financially who could make up for it many other ways. Yeah we all know love doesn't pay the bills and that a man certainly has to bring something of substance to the table financially but it shouldn't be the end all be all.

 

[Canon]

Love is too expensive

fukk it

doing us a favor

let the bedwenches be out of our price range

 

[-----]

Cringeworthy.


Have some of these people ever thought, hey maybe it's YOU.

This. BIGTIME!