These chicks do this because they want to im not going to remove womens agency and blame men
The next generation of high power mainstream black women are totally fine getting impregnated out of wedlock by rappers?
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Also women who grow up watching their mothers being dominated and controlled by their fathers. You’d be surprised how many women have been told by their mothers never to end up chained like them.
Most these hoes grew uo in single parent homes so this is cap and color purple fairy tales
So being a single parent and your child(ren) not having their biological father at home, a better alternative?
I've never seen this
Most women I see act this way were raised by single mothers which is why they don't see the value in giving their children male paternity figures
These simps can never say “bytch this is your fault” always gotta find a deflection point lol
what i have heard/seen is the following:
1) mothers who may be married but still tell their daughters never to rely on a man. their fathers sometimes say this too (this is the rarest though)
2) mothers who were in abusive or unfaithful relationships/marriages, fled/left the man
3) mothers who had children out of wedlock with men
in 2-3, the natural effect is woman who
a) are independently minded, which is not conducive to a relationship
b) women who dont trust men
c) women who dont understand or know how to interact with and habitate with men because they never witnessed it through their parents
d) women who have avoidant/fearful attachment styles
e) women who are increasingly willing to have children out of wedlock - all the way down to using sperm banks
I think men underestimate how much this shyt affects their daughters/young women in society. No, the goal should never be to ho yourself and get burnt out, but the goal also isn’t to end up crying and sad like your mom when your dad was acting foul.
Girls are trying to find the balance, but aren’t finding/getting advice from the women with happy households.
Alot of chics move like this. Going after the breh that's actually buttoned up and has his ish together highlights their own flaws and deficiencies as well as the self work they need to do. He is able to stand on his square and let them walk without it changing his life at all. This terrifies women who enjoy some measure of control of their relationship. So it's better to just get someone that's dependent on them. That way they'll always keep some measure of their hand on the wheel at all times.
The worst is that they'll crap on the women in good situations for trying to give them good advice. Alot of them have such a pessimistic mindset from all the social media trauma bonding that prevents them from positive changes
Celebs jobs are public perception and they have massive impact on public trends, so in a way they kind of do
Only the coli yall complain about black women being too stuck up but complain when they date black men that don't fit a narrative it s a problem?
Merely not being married is not a dysfunction. Her father stuck by her mother and they worked out. So what dysfunction did she observe in her personal life? The lack of a ring? The commitment was there ...
Uncommitted parents thenMerely not being married is not a dysfunction. Her father stuck by her mother and they worked out. So what dysfunction did she observe in her personal life? The lack of a ring? The commitment was there ...
Don’t focus on the word marriage
Focus on what commitment means. Her dad and mom were committed to each other. What are you talking about?