Essential The Locker Room's Random Thoughts

[Apollo Kid]

This song will stay relevant in hip hop

 

[ill_will82]

 

[CinnaSlim]

, I assumed most were emotionally neglected like me. everybody was emotionally unavailable and nobody looked out for me because they assumed I was a dude so I didn't need it. Never even heard I love you from any male figure ever , father included

Great.

I was first female grandchild. My ass was put in the kitchen. Doing dishes every day on a stepstool before I could even reach the sink.
Constantly told not to be a fast ass girl, yet being treated like one regardless.

While my brothers and my cousins had all the freedom. They were the ones getting paid more (in the family business) while I was told I better find rich husband because I can't do anything (right). I cut off my grandparents, for their negative mindset.

Awesome, now that we both told our stories...

The quote I posted was a response to the "boys will be boys" mentality that absolves boys from responsibility until they grow up into the irresponsible men women and the community complain about.

Meanwhile the job of the female in the family is to cook, clean up after the family, not get pregnant before getting out of the house or getting married, not bring shame upon the family.

In black broken families, with mostly single mothers they treat their sons like surrogate husbands. Because men come and go, but your children are supposed to always love you. When they look at their daughters, they see a burden and more mouths to feed. As they get older and more developed they become competition.

*In most of the world having a son is celebrated. A child with the capabilities and privileges to go out and bring more wealth and resources. A girl you must use your resources for until you can marry her off. A son's purpose is to continue a line. A daughter's purpose is to bring sons to help continue a man's line.

 

[marcuz]

"Black girls are raised, black boys are loved."

Black men are coddled (generally) in regards to upbringing.

then say boys, cus society coddles BW a hell of a lot more

 

[CinnaSlim]

Also, the reactions when my male cousin got in comparison to his sister when they came forward about molestation was interesting to say the least , literally nobody blinked an eye at the former I still don't understand this

What's not to understand? There's a double standard when it comes to sexual assault because misogyny and hypermasculinity teaches that men should be strong enough to fight off predators and that they should be happy to get any type of sexual interaction.

Now if you are gonna purposely single out the double standards that affect you, I hope you give as much attention to the double standards that benefit you.

 

[CinnaSlim]

then say boys, cus society coddles BW a hell of a lot more

I did, did I not?

Black boys grow into black men. And to say one is coddled you must specify in what context because no one is universally coddled.

 

[CinnaSlim]

black males are sexualized at birth.

They ain't the only ones.
We live in a hypersexualized society.

Please expand on that.

 

[Critical Distance]

They ain't the only ones.
We live in a hypersexualized society.

Please expand on that.

black boys are sexualized as rapists, deviants, and predators.

black girls are sexualized sexually promiscuous, wild, and unruly.

world of difference.

 

[Splash]

Just enjoyin the views from my balcony right now, nursin this whisky
Life is fukkin sweet

 

[The Mad Titan]

"Black girls are raised, black boys are loved."

Black men are coddled (generally) in regards to upbringing.

I think 1st born's regardless of gender or race are coddled a lot. After that its a toss up lol.

Its your 1st, and most everyone's 1st time experiencing anything is usually special and they are overprotective of it/them.


With Boy's its Mom's and with Girls its Dad's.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

kills me when i'm watching a movie with someone, usually old folks, and they ask me all crazy questions 'Is that the boyfriend?' 'Where did he find the money?' 'who killed him?'

my friend, we are watching the same movie, you don't know shyt and I don't know shyt, stop talking and let's find shyt out together lol

 

[Aphrodite]

Yesss

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

My libido has been quite high recently. I've been attracting a lot of women who want kids too. I think women who want kids respond to pheromones I've been releasing. And vice versa.

I keep having a dream about having sex with this girl. I want to fukk her until she's dizzy and get her hella pregnant. I wonder if girls know some guys fantasize about cumming inside of them. I don't care about doing anything freaky I just want to pro create the nasty way.

I cannot stop thinking about her. We always end up very close to each other and the building I work in is huge. There are at least a hundred people in the building during the day.

We flirt as if we've been dating for a long time.

I try to stay away from her in public because some other girls called her a chicken head.

she's not a chicken head. She's winning and they're mad.

I flirt a lot. I try to stop and it never works. Hahaha, most guys do, but they're not attractive so it doesn't work. I'm effective. I'll say that much.

I'm not trying to fukk a bunch of girls. I was trying to date a bunch of girls. Shaking them is harder because I don't treat my girls like they're disposable.


I don't want them picking on her. She's nice and sweet. Lol she's not ready.

I love all my girls and if I could marry them all like Fela Kuti I would. All my girls provide me with something. They all gotta get along because there isn't one woman on this planet who can give me everything I need.

I'm hella needy, hahaha.

All my friends are girls and they all gotta get along or I'll die. Girls are too observant. They notice everything. They're territorial too.

If I talk to a girl for too long or stand too close to a girl I get a look from another girl.

I'm a prisoner in a prison I constructed. It's awesome but it sucks too.

I still can't believe people thought I was doctor X. He could never, never mind.

 

[CinnaSlim]

black boys are sexualized as rapists, deviants, and predators.

black girls are sexualized sexually promiscuous, wild, and unruly.

world of difference.

Masculine & Feminine. Masculinity is penetrating offensive energy. Femininity is receptive defensive energy.

Men in general are seen as predators, black men especially which is why they are less likely to be taken seriously as victims.

Black women are also sexualized from birth. In fact the history of the hypersexualization of black women has been used as an excuse of why they should be "deemed" unrapeable. Even to this day, toted as "fast ass girls". Black youth as a whole are often denied a childhood innocence.

I would also take into account context here and this goes back into the coddled conversation. Do you believe black men are seen as predators within the black community? Because the context of the original quote is not meant to be taken universally. That would be obviously false. It is a quote used to address the black community.

 

[Critical Distance]

masculinity does not have exist.

Masculine & Feminine. Masculinity is penetrating offensive energy. Femininity is receptive defensive energy.

Men in general are seen as predators, black men especially which is why they are less likely to be taken seriously as victims.

Black women are also sexualized from birth. In fact the history of the hypersexualization of black women has been used as an excuse of why they should be "deemed" unrapeable. Even to this day, toted as "fast ass girls". Black youth as a whole are often denied a childhood innocence.

I would also take into account context here and this goes back into the coddled conversation. Do you believe black men are seen as predators within the black community? Because the context of the original quote is not meant to be taken universally. That would be obviously false. It is a quote used to address the black community.