Ok: You acknowledge the bold, so nvm then. I thought you were conflating your personal experience as being indicative of the entire population of black men. I'm not going to shun or downplay your experiences though. Maybe this guy will be Mr. Rawtid.It's not delusional if it's my personal experience. I just don't often encounter men, black men especially who desire a relationship. I don't think ALL black men are that way and I do feel it's wrong for me to think MOST are that way, which is why I'm going to value this association whatever may come of it.