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I've fully grown actually. Once I changed for the better. You are in the beginning stages. You do not see the light yet. You are blinded by their fake appreciation.
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The fact that you still don't see it, astonishes me. Good luck in your search bruv.
 
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BlackPearl said:
That's all I'm saying. :hubie: Ain't too many people on this board have multiple threads made about them trying to call them ugly while trying to get others to join in on shytting on them. That's some pretty fukked up shyt. I ain't ever been ugly a day in my life so it ain't nothing to me but imagine if I was........ or coco or someone like that. I probably would have offed myself. That's why I think this nikka shewantsthed needs to be checks; not b/c I'm mad but b/c coward nikkas should be checked. The other one already got checked and you see he's singling a new tune. That's all I'm saying.
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I was going to apologize but you on some straight bullshyt. I apologized for my behavior and owned up to my bullshyt in the DC Halloween meetup thread but I'm not going to do that here. It's funny how you can do something but when someone else does it, it's going too far and there's a problem with it. You made the same thread, and have made several threads about #SOG_Soldier.

I didn't call you a man in the first thread. I simply posed a question and asked for an explanation. You explained yourself and I kept it moving. The second thread was a spin thread off a thread you made about someone else. Did you consider his feelings and how he would feel? I don't even get personal on here like many of you do. How many times have you gotten personal in attempt to get under my skin? How many of y'all be on here talking shyt about peoples personal lives? I don't do that and never have.

But I don't take thecoli seriously, it's all jokes to me so the things said here don't mean nothing to me. We have gone back and forth many times and you never said anything. You said the exact opposite, how those threads didn't affect you, that they backfired, and that I took an L.

I never once called you ugly. And I've told you many times the predator thing was because of the big forehead and your hair, had nothing to do with your looks. I told you that if any of my posts bother you then I will leave you alone. And I did, did I not?

And no one here is offing themselves over what's said on here. The shyt I talk on here ain't nothing compared to the fukkery that some of y'all engage in. Telling people to off themselves, how they ain't shyt, putting peoples personal business they confided to you in private out for everyone to see etc. I have never done those things.

But ima let you cook though.

Edit: And who did I try and get to join me supposedly shytting on you? You making stuff up. :rudy:
 
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BlackPearl said:
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fukk out my face
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Stop acting like a man. You are too thick skinned.

Forgive me not for me but for yourself.

All that negative energy, vengeance, holding grudges ain't good for you.
 
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Jayne said:
What I gather from this is some similarities with my situation. With you, the fact that you were a dancer and you have high standards makes the guys on here want to pick you apart. They did a psychology break down of why female rappers who are attractive and who are sexually expressive/rap about product placement turn men off so much and why men critique them hard. It's because they are believing that you do not deserve to want better for yourself, you shouldn't be confident, and if you aren't a complete dime at all times, they will try to take weak shots at you.

It's similar to mine because people assumed just because of the ts thing that I would be ugly/manly looking. I'm confident/can be arrogant, have high standards and they are looking at me (without seeing me) like 'bytch you're a fukking tranny. You should be grateful that anyone gives you attention.' Because they are used to seeing busted ass trans women. My looks (like yours, for you being a former dancer) is always a subject/topic. We get overly analyzed for what we represent and because we are both confident and know that we are attractive. While there's women here who are modest or comfortable not voicing they are. They may even self doubt in majority of their posts. That makes men comfortable. They actually love that shyt.

Then when guys finally see me on here, I'm perceived completely different. But they still will pick my ass apart if I post some photos that aren't on point.

Confidence alone makes you a target for attack with your looks.

Why do you even have to be attractive to be confident or have high standards? You don't.

But if you are, it's shyt you have to maintain.

You are expected to be humble. People want to humble you.

I remember on tumblr some girls were going at India Westbrooks when she went to that Bet Awards in the black simple dress and they ate it up because she wasn't overly done up. They said her titties looked saggy and basically claimed she was a catfish because India is famous for her body/ooks and that was an "off" day for her. So you got a bandwagon of ugly ass hoes commenting on the post and nutting in their panties over this one time they see her looking average. Then on another post, they are talking about how much they don't like her because she KNOWS she's cute and she's so full of herself/into her self and not humble.
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I swear, your first paragraph , I posted almost that exact same thing maybe a few weeks ago when someone asked me why certain dudes feel the need to try to come for me. So you are exactly right. Some of these men been living in a box so long and have such a hard definition of what is "happy" and "successful" it really fukks up their world when you don't validate their prejudices. It's crazy these same men will shyt on ugly woman, shyt on broke women, will shyt on women with children but yet hate it with a passion when a woman is none of those things. It's like they constantly need to feel superior inorder to have some sort of happiness. You are spot on. Weak people hate success. It just reminds them that they ain't shyt but instead of getting their shyt together they'd rather spend their energy trying to bring others down.

Drake said it best "They rather run up on me then towards their goals."


In your case I also agree. I still can't believe a dude banned himself over you. I was in those thread dying. It's just amazing how much energy people put into hating random ass people. But I am glad you are good. I know it was ruff for awhile but you seem to have found you're niche and it's working for you. You keep doing you and Imma keep doing me and fukk any of these birds who don't like it.
 
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Jayne said:
What I gather from this is some similarities with my situation. With you, the fact that you were a dancer and you have high standards makes the guys on here want to pick you apart. They did a psychology break down of why female rappers who are attractive and who are sexually expressive/rap about product placement turn men off so much and why men critique them hard. It's because they are believing that you do not deserve to want better for yourself, you shouldn't be confident, and if you aren't a complete dime at all times, they will try to take weak shots at you. What you represent is beauty/sex appeal, when you lose it or don't have it, you should be humble.

It's similar to mine because people assumed just because of the ts thing that I would be ugly/manly looking. I'm confident/can be arrogant, have high standards and they are looking at me (without seeing me) like 'bytch you're a fukking tranny. You should be grateful that anyone gives you attention.' Because they are used to seeing busted ass trans women. My looks (like yours, for you being a former dancer) is always a subject/topic. We get overly analyzed for what we represent and because we are both confident and know that we are attractive. While there's women here who are modest or comfortable not voicing they are. They may even self doubt in majority of their posts. That makes men comfortable. They actually love that shyt.

Then when guys finally see me on here, I'm perceived completely different. But they still will pick my ass apart if I post some photos that aren't on point.

Confidence alone makes you a target for attack with your looks.

Why do you even have to be attractive to be confident or have high standards? You don't.

But if you are, it's shyt you have to maintain.

You are expected to be humble. People want to humble you.

I remember on tumblr some girls were going at India Westbrooks when she went to that Bet Awards in the black simple dress and they ate it up because she wasn't overly done up. They said her titties looked saggy and basically claimed she was a catfish because India is famous for her body/ooks and that was an "off" day for her. So you got a bandwagon of ugly ass hoes commenting on the post and nutting in their panties over this one time they see her looking average. Then on another post, they are talking about how much they don't like her because she KNOWS she's cute and she's so full of herself/into her self and not humble.
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I do not try to tear people down on here at all. I do not talk about peoples pasts, personal lives or current situations.For the most part I don't even know what's going on in their lives. I try to be compassionate and understanding about people and what they may be going through.

Yes, I make threads highlighting women's dysfunctional behavior but I do the same thing towards men. It's just that no one cares when I bring up men's destructive behavior, so it gets no attention. It's because I hold a high standard and i want to see the world become a better place. Women don't call women out on their bullshyt so men do it. I call men out on their bullshyt too. Dudes on here talking about how they cheated on their girl and I don't show them sympathy or justify their behavior. Has thecoli made more jaded? Yes, but it isn't necessarily like the things I say are absolutely wrong and I never speak in absolutes. I never say ALL women ALL or all men.

I have never once went at Blackpearl for her past nor have I ever made her feel less than because of it. Me and her have clashed on here before when I said I don't want to wife a woman with a sexually promiscuous past, even though I wasn't even talking about her and was just saying it in general. I try not to get personal with people on here, and I own up to my bullshyt. If someone tells me that they felt hurt by what I've said on here I will try to understand where they are coming from and apologize.
 
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