I remember in Myspace days, when I was naive and gullible, I used be accessible. I had around 40K friends. Every time of the day I had comments coming in on my profile and photos. Guys would mostly leave the comments. It had my family talking. I was always a conversation when away from them. My dad would tell me. It made me start to distance myself. But it really kicked in when some of my female family members (who I had in the slideshows on my profile and made bulletins for my friends to follow) was secretly messaging guys telling them my tea (and talking about me behind my back). Ironically the guys they messaged all knew my tea and the guys would message me or call me to tell me about it laughing at them. These were family members I loved so much.
Then these same women harassed me on another forum around that time after I made it clear I wasn't fukking with them anymore.
I haven't spoken or seen them in 10 years.