Y'all don't. You want to work 12-14 hours a day while your girl just sits around waiting. You don't want her to help. You don't tell her the plan. You don't want to include her. You barely make time. You just say shyt like "im grinding". She doesn't even know what she's waiting for or how long she has to wait for you.
Y'all don't.
some dont. some actually want to. i could say that for the opposite sex as well. there are
some women want to build, and
some women come out of the woodwork when you get your shyt together.
You want to work 12-14 hours a day while your girl just sits around waiting.
You don't tell her the plan. You don't want to include her. You barely make time.
how many hours of his time do you require? how long would you like him to work? i just want to know the ideal desire for this situation.
You don't want her to help.
some don't mind asking.
some want to do it on their own. to feel like they can run the ship properly.
some men who refuse help do that out of pride, possibly being seen as weak to ask for help. at least thats what i think.