I use to think she was the only person I could rely on. Now that I'm spending more time with her I see that she's pretty incapable, not reliable and not very bright at times. So wrapped in her husband she's become just like him; lazy, simple and clueless. She use to be creative and make beautiful things. That's gone completely.
It's actually comforting to know that the thought that one day you might lose something super valuable was just something in your head. Of course, she's still valuable. It's just not in the way I thought.