Depends on a number of factors, how ugly we talking and if they got a saving point. Also it depends on what you consider what’s worse.
Ugly women still get play, be having rosters all that. They fukking and have a healthy sex life, it’s when it comes time to get wifed they run into obstacles. Multiple occasions I called myself lowering visual standards cause I’m pretty simple to kick it with, so having a dope personality and something that get me going (usually titties) and I can work with you. But the same ones I considered myself compromising for are the same ones who did me the worst, friendzone, lying, using...the works. But this when I was just trying to smash.
At least being a decent looking dude on a good day when the sun is out, opportunities for a relationship come by fairly easy. Always have. I’d figure even ugly dudes got this path whenever women start to settle....
So basically we be looking for different things, when we can’t get no buns we men consider it a failure, when they juggling multiple nikkas who all treating them like shyt women consider that a failure