Some people are just meant to be friends. You don't wanna cross that line and then things end up being weirdI'm soft with a homegirl who asked if wanted to hang out. She came over today as a homegirl from 8pm til 4am and I didnt do shyt. I hate myself. I've known her too long, the pressure felt too weird to smash, ended up watching breaking bad for 6 hours abd a movie and eating chips
Some people are just meant to be friends. You don't wanna cross that line and then things end up being weird
Did it feel awkward? Did she seem bored or preoccupied? If y’all can chill that long and actually be ok with it, that’s a good sign, IMO. Every situation doesn’t need to turn into an opportunity to have sex.I'm soft with a homegirl who asked if wanted to hang out. She came over today as a homegirl from 8pm til 4am and I didnt do shyt. I hate myself. I've known her too long, the pressure felt too weird to smash, ended up watching breaking bad for 6 hours and a movie and eating chips
Did it feel awkward? Did she seem bored or preoccupied? If y’all can chill that long and actually be ok with it, that’s a good sign, IMO. Every situation doesn’t need to turn into an opportunity to have sex.
It sounds like this won't be the last time yall hang out. Yall just pacing yourselvesYou are right, but I really like this girl. I know for a fact we both left tonight acting satisfied but reality disappointed
Nah she never checked her phone except once and I ignored a couple phone calls myself. I genuinely enjoy her company. She laughed at my skills cooking enchiladas to the point she was damn near on the floor but I just feel so weird trying to take it to the next level. She is somewhat of a best friend that I've known for 4 years
SavageLol that way if it doesn’t go well you can leave those bad memories out of town
It sounds like this won't be the last time yall hang out. Yall just pacing yourselves
Nah just strategic. Nothing like having to face the place your heart was broken over and over again. It’s like going to work after something with a coworker went bad. Some of us don’t recover quickly, so I prefer to get played in places I won’t frequent often.Savage
Did she recently break up with someone and are you still talking to your ex?Its happened a few times now, i know we're both at ease. I asked her out when I met her years ago and she said she wasnt ready, I figured I got friendzone so I never pursued and kept it nuetral but now she hits me all the time to kick it. shyt, she offended me the other day hating on my exs saying I'm worth so much more. Idk what to think
Oh the memoryNah just strategic. Nothing like having to face the place your heart was broken over and over again. It’s like going to work after something with a coworker went bad. Some of us don’t recover quickly, so I prefer to get played in places I won’t frequent often.
You should tell her how you feel before you make a move. If you want to impress her, take her on a fancy date...tell her to dress up and you can lay it on her there. Or do it in a casual setting, but romantic setting. Take a road trip and get a hotel for the night. Lol that way if it doesn’t go well you can leave those bad memories out of town
If she’s not checking her phone, I say she digs you but make sure it’s mutual.