Joe has always been underrated to me.
Why is her thighs shaped like that?
You need to check him for that.My children's father is normally very good to our children but I had to keep myself from pulling up on him and fighting him like a random nikka in the street today though.
He called this morning and told me to tell our son to get dressed because they were going to spend the day together. My son was SO excited. He got dressed and had been sitting in the living room waiting on his Dad to show up.
He didn’t.....
After two hours, I secretly called him to let him know that our son was waiting on him and that he was excited. He told me that he was on the way.
That was three hours ago....
After a while of sitting in the living room with his shoes on and book bag, he came in my room with tears in his eyes and asked if I knew where his Dad was. I called his phone and handed the phone off to our son so that HE could hear his explanation.
I watched his eyes get even sadder and a few tears fall so I figured his Dad told him that he got busy or something but promised to make it up to him. He hung up and handed the phone back to me and left without saying a word.
That shyt there broke me down.
It took me back 19 years ago when I also sat in the kitchen with my coat on and over night bag waiting for my own Dad to show up. 8 and a half hours I waited..for nothing. No call...nothing at all.
My Daddy never showed up for me but my Son’s does 99% of the time so I couldn’t snap on him like I wanted to.
shyt really isn’t fair though. I’ve said it a million times up here and in life. PLEASE be good to your children. Things that you do, trauma, disappointments, mean words, or simply being absent when they need you the most doesn’t go away. They will live with those scars forever.
Now I’m damn near thirty still carrying around my Daddy issues and about to put them off on a normally good Dad. I feel bad and I hadn’t even cursed him out yet.
You need to check him for that.