My girl is kinda like this. She had to take care of her siblings kids all the time and it kinda tired her out. I don't think parents realize how babysitting constantly molds your view of children.Being forced to take care of my brother has really made me not want to have kids.
My mom and her husband are really trying it too with their " When you'll have kids.. ". Yeah man.. that ain't happening.
Yep I’m in Charlotte@CarmelBarbie are you still in NC?
What is your take on it as an emerging metro city for black folks? I love my city but It might be better to move to raise a fam. Problem is my girl has bad memories of NC.Yep I’m in Charlotte