Trying to alleviate some issues between my oldest brother, myself and the family, but man, the shortcomings (negative aspects) of our personalities are so incompatible for this.
He’s so fukking moody, negative, holds grudges but loves to run his mouth, I’m impatient, a little hard (unemotional) and am very much one to move past things quickly. Sitting here trying to listen to him is giving me headache,
I want to tell him he’s being an oversensitive selfish a$$hole. I also want to hang up as what started as me just trying to touch base to make sure he doesn’t bring what I’m bringing to dinner has turned into a 45 minute monologue/vent session from him
I’m trying hard to listen/be understanding as I know he’s wanted to get shyt off his chest, but he’s also not looking for ways to move past or fix things....I can’t sit and listen to people’s negativity if they’re not looking for ways to make things better.
#family