He's just a dikkhead. None of my siblings like him either. The way he talks to us, his selfishness, his constant need to always right. I can't call him a deadbeat because he provided financially but in all other areas he's been severely lacking as a father. There's never been a single day of my life where I've missed him or wanted to spend time with him. I can't even recall a good memory that I have with him from my childhood. Idk what my mother ever saw in him when she was younger that would make her decide to procreate with a man like him