I don't know why. But when you don't want to do something with a family member, it's like they guilt trip you. And when you actually straight up say you're not going you feel like you're letting them down as if you're murdering someone or being on heroin.
basically my mom wanted to take a trip that would have lasted about 2 hours there and back. the food she wanted didn't warrant a 2 hour trip imo. She basically wanted something that closed down in our town and she been craving for it.
I tell her no. She hits me with the we never spend time together. I tell her lets go eat in somewhere here. Shes turns that down and I tell her I'm not going outta town just for me to get some chicken and french fries.
So now she keep hitting me with the frowns, I'm doing her wrong, and all the guilt trips.
Now I feel bad.
Feels like I did the most evil thing in the world or some shyt