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I feel you and this thinking is why I've never been in a relationship and I'm damn near 50. You're not going to fix your relationship issues being single. Get out there, date, fail and do it again while you're young so you can learn strategies to deal with your issues and by the time you're older you should have worked through most of it. Just like no credit can be worse than bad credit, I feel the same about relationships. No experience is worse than bad ones.
I'm nervous about Taking Chances in the dating world. Sometimes I'm guilty of feeling like I'm not where I want to be physically or financially and I feel like I use that as an excuse to not take chances.
 

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I'm nervous about Taking Chances in the dating world. Sometimes I'm guilty of feeling like I'm not where I want to be physically or financially and I feel like I use that as an excuse to not take chances.
Date someone that's not where they want to be physically or financially :manny: Yall two can work on it together. Again, you're not going to get over a fear of relationships by remaining single. I saw this post the other day where this couple shed over 400lbs together. They were fat as fukk when they got married, but decided to lose together. They look good now and relationship probably strong as fukk.
 

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One of the most frustrating things is when people such as myself and others say certain things based off of what we have experienced first hand and living it have other people who are from the outside looking in trying to speak for them, saying the same exact things word from word, acting like they've experienced it when they haven't. they usually are the very same type of people that they are speaking out against which is the irony. They do it for personal gain like money, attention, likes on social media and shyt. It's very annoying.

These same folks then turn around try to act like they are above or better than those same people they are basically stealing from or trying to speak for. Perfect example of that is kid Cudi. He wants to be the spokesperson for the underdog, loner and etc claiming some shyt but yet he turns around dissing the same people or acting like he's better than them. It's like huh? So obviously he isn't genuine with what he's saying.
 

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I'm nervous about Taking Chances in the dating world. Sometimes I'm guilty of feeling like I'm not where I want to be physically or financially and I feel like I use that as an excuse to not take chances.
Do drugs and you’ll have no doubts
I got a lecture about this already but ok
your coli fam just wants the best for you :therethere:
 

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This p*ssy detox is rough. No more p*ssy for the rest of the year.
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Mama need to stop the bachelor shaming...almost blew up on her with the grandkids bullsh!t
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Date someone that's not where they want to be physically or financially :manny: Yall two can work on it together. Again, you're not going to get over a fear of relationships by remaining single. I saw this post the other day where this couple shed over 400lbs together. They were fat as fukk when they got married, but decided to lose together. They look good now and relationship probably strong as fukk.
Part of me wants to use the excuses from my younger days such as"women only want a finished product".
I know there are women willing to build with a man but I wouldn't put all my chips in that happening to me. :yeshrug:
 

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Part of me wants to use the excuses from my younger days such as"women only want a finished product".
I know there are women willing to build with a man but I wouldn't put all my chips in that happening to me. :yeshrug:
I feel you. That’s why I embrace bejng single. I’ll never be a “finished” product. Always going to be learning and progressing. I desire someone who is the same. If it happens before menopause cool, if not that’s cool too :manny:

Just don’t wait too late like me. Once you’re past you’re 30’s or family starting age, I feel it’s pointless to be in a relationship, well trying to start a new one anyway.
 

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I feel you. That’s why I embrace bejng single. I’ll never be a “finished” product. Always going to be learning and progressing. I desire someone who is the same. If it happens before menopause cool, if not that’s cool too :manny:

Just don’t wait too late like me. Once you’re past you’re 30’s or family starting age, I feel it’s pointless to be in a relationship, well trying to start a new one anyway.
I understand. I just need to increase the work I do on myself. And continue to put my ego aside. I think I shoot too high off the rip. I won't even lie. I'm a bit more interested in sex than dating.
 
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