I'm nervous about Taking Chances in the dating world. Sometimes I'm guilty of feeling like I'm not where I want to be physically or financially and I feel like I use that as an excuse to not take chances.I feel you and this thinking is why I've never been in a relationship and I'm damn near 50. You're not going to fix your relationship issues being single. Get out there, date, fail and do it again while you're young so you can learn strategies to deal with your issues and by the time you're older you should have worked through most of it. Just like no credit can be worse than bad credit, I feel the same about relationships. No experience is worse than bad ones.