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@"Cardi Bs testimony"
what i said was more so sad than nasty tho.Ooooh. By I'm the "nasty" one.
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_59ce738be4b0f58902e5cbbe?section=us_queer-voices
saying this is all gay men know. 
Sorry but he needs to speak for himself. That's all he knows which is very sad. It's annoying how it seems like shyt like this is always promoted as being "gay pride" when in reality it's just someone choosing to live like that. Then someone else who may be coming to terms with their sexual orientation looking for direction on how to be comfortable with themselves reads this article and gets misled thinking casual sex with anonymous people=what gay men HAVE to do to validate themselves as gay men. So sick and tired of seeing too many gay men who seem to moving on self interest trying so hard to force their way of lives onto other gay men as a way of manipulating. It's ridiculous.
Personally, I think I'm keeping it real for myself as a gay man by refusing to follow the script that is written for gay men brought about by social engineering which basically says that sex is the only purpose of a gay man's life. So basically be as sexual as can be to the point where a gay man has to show that shyt to everybody whether it's roaming around in underwear or appearing nude, talking about sex, sexually objectifying men all the time, casual sex, having open relationships, prostitution, pornography and etc. The author claims that he's not addicted to sex which may be true though he does promote that lifestyle. If that's what he likes, that's cool but he doesn't speak for everybody including me.
The funny part is I have yet to see any articles on any of these gay news and entertainment platforms promoting monogamy, virginity, celebacy, masturbation, relationships, dating, fwb or anything that doesn't have anything to do with being "loose" which to me is very strange. These are also realities to some gay men that choose to engage in it and it's okay. It's beginning to seem like these platforms seem to be in the pockets of the businesses that make money off of the sex lives of gay men such as the hookup apps, the underwear companies like Andrew Christian, the drug pharmaceutical companies with the PreP, the alcohol companies and etc. Sounds very sinister to me. I feel that the oversexed lifestyle is very unhealthy and obviously, if someone basically trains themselves to having sex all the time with random people and etc, I doubt that they're going to be able to handle a commited relationship where they will be satisfied having sex with just one person. Can't expect someone to suddenly shift gears like that. Plus its risky health wise with the number of std carriers. At some point, it's better to have some restraint instead of running around trying to fukk everyone.
And it's shyt like this that makes me
saying this is all gay men know. Sorry but he needs to speak for himself. That's all he knows which is very sad. It's annoying how it seems like shyt like this is always promoted as being "gay pride" when in reality it's just someone choosing to live like that. Then someone else who may be coming to terms with their sexual orientation looking for direction on how to be comfortable with themselves reads this article and gets misled thinking casual sex with anonymous people=what gay men HAVE to do to validate themselves as gay men. So sick and tired of seeing too many gay men who seem to moving on self interest trying so hard to force their way of lives onto other gay men as a way of manipulating. It's ridiculous.Personally, I think I'm keeping it real for myself as a gay man by refusing to follow the script that is written for gay men brought about by social engineering which basically says that sex is the only purpose of a gay man's life. So basically be as sexual as can be to the point where a gay man has to show that shyt to everybody whether it's roaming around in underwear or appearing nude, talking about sex, sexually objectifying men all the time, casual sex, having open relationships, prostitution, pornography and etc. The author claims that he's not addicted to sex which may be true though he does promote that lifestyle. If that's what he likes, that's cool but he doesn't speak for everybody including me.
The funny part is I have yet to see any articles on any of these gay news and entertainment platforms promoting monogamy, virginity, celebacy, masturbation, relationships, dating, fwb or anything that doesn't have anything to do with being "loose" which to me is very strange. These are also realities to some gay men that choose to engage in it and it's okay. It's beginning to seem like these platforms seem to be in the pockets of the businesses that make money off of the sex lives of gay men such as the hookup apps, the underwear companies like Andrew Christian, the drug pharmaceutical companies with the PreP, the alcohol companies and etc. Sounds very sinister to me. I feel that the oversexed lifestyle is very unhealthy and obviously, if someone basically trains themselves to having sex all the time with random people and etc, I doubt that they're going to be able to handle a commited relationship where they will be satisfied having sex with just one person. Can't expect someone to suddenly shift gears like that. Plus its risky health wise with the number of std carriers. At some point, it's better to have some restraint instead of running around trying to fukk everyone.
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Cardiand some other people I don't knowis at my school y'all! lol
but I didn't go. I only like one of the line up's songs (Bodak Yellow) the rest is not my type of music. I went to the carnival insteadbut now I'm bored at home alone and on here. lol It is free for students and I plan on going again or everyday until it leaves, maybe take some of the babies.
My sister is there though, but she's working. This is kinda her first concert. She said that it is "lit af" and Cardi is acting a fool lol. I hope she had fun, gets a pic and some free shxt. I have to go get her at 1am bc we're still sharing a carlol
Anyway, I can't believe that I'm still not tired of this song yet! lol
#repost
& my hair! I did NOT know that my hair was this curly (a couple of people told me that I looked like or reminded them of "the girl from blackish" with my hair like that & glasses, most of them were not black though, so I take it with many grains of salt lol). I got a hair cut, healed my scalp, did a dc and noticed some lovely curls, mostly 3c and 4a, almost lovely enough to wear a wash and go. I'll wait till next summer though, don't have time for that in the winter. It looks cute curly though, so maybe I will, idk. Glad that I found something to do with my hair for these up coming events! I still don't really like this schoolfull of non blacksmuch, but it is much better when you take advantage of their resources. I had no idea this one could count as like, an internship/experience.
My "friends" ( I feel like I only have acquaintances now #Aquarius) are off at medical school, law school, or traveling while I'm still in undergrad, I'm younger than them though, so it's ok I guess. I can't see myself being more than acquaintances with "others". Not sure how that sounds, but it's true. I always feels like work or professional when speaking with them. Still trying to find where the black people my age are hiding here. I have meet a few black people here, but :eh:....I am too "urban" for oreos and too proper for more urban/"hood" pple.
Oh! & y'all know that girl I was talking about in tinychat months ago? The fake taurus btch? She still wants to get in contact with me. Idk why, but like I said last time, I think it's bc she wants to be nosy and compare, but my nosy ass kinda wants to find out for sure.
This site got pretty boring to me earlier this year and is worse now, I still get on when I'm bored though.
I forgot to say, my sister did one of those dna testing things and it came back that she is like 25% European. We were always told that the other in us was mostly Native American and a little Euro, but her Native American was only like 2% , yet my grandma is still trying to claim Native American when it's just not true so far. lol
I want to do mine as well to compare results, but I'll use a different company bc hers wasn't as detailed as some of the others.
I want to do mine as well to compare results, but I'll use a different company bc hers wasn't as detailed as some of the others.
huffpost is garbage. the writers are 99% horribleThe importance of educating one self courtesy of Huffington post
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_59ce738be4b0f58902e5cbbe?section=us_queer-voices
who the fukk told this guy that? Has he ever thought that maybe many men did that because they were closeted as in they had wives and kids so they did shyt like that. They basically had to make themselves anonymous out of fear of being outed. It was shame.
I am so sick and tired of some of these folks desperately trying to push their own self interest and then try to push that shyt onto everybody. If that's what they like, fine but please don't try to misuse history and push this idea that "it's what gay men have to do to validate themselves as gay people". Too many people are doing that shyt and at the end of the day, all they're doing is manipulating others. That's all. Manipulating. I've seen plenty of bullshyt on Huffington post which is why I can't take that shyt seriously. They seem to allow just anyone to write whatever on there which isn't good.
alot of folks like about having "indian in their family"
so most of the time if you're family tells you you "got some Cherokee in your family", you're actually part white
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