When you're finally alone..ask yourself..
Am I really happy? Do I feel satisfied with my life..? Do I know my purpose..?
If the answers are adverse, then not only do you waste your time but the time of others close to you with your inability to take control and drive yourself to maturation as an adult. Life is finite and childhood be short, how long does a man need to nurse like a babe and seek his validation like a kid from people who...in the end, care nothing about him?
Either be strong in fierce anger or carefully cautious in godly grace but be decisive and serious in handling your lives.. be meticulous, be thoughtful, be aware and be courageous. Please take control and strive for your ultimate form, for enriching satisfaction in your life and for peace within.