:Suavenikka:elaborate.Not how it works babe.
im a bit more confident as a man but my body changing would help. at least thats how i feel. :madkev:
:Suavenikka:elaborate.Not how it works babe.
We will always have problems in our lives and issues. That's the way growth works. You will ups and downs, continuously. It will never be consistently 'good'.:Suavenikka:elaborate.
im a bit more confident as a man but my body changing would help. at least thats how i feel. :madkev:
He's a cutie.
im only really referring to self esteem wise. i feel if i was in the best shape of my life, then i would be a happier individual; and all of the positives about myself,We will always have problems in our lives and issues. That's the way growth works. You will ups and downs, continuously. It will never be consistently 'good'.
Nah you'll just be a swole nikka who insecure.the goal is to not be fat. and be in shape. then all problems will vanish.
People will still find you unattractive. You may get the 'he's aight...' or "He's overrated"im only really referring to self esteem wise. i feel if i was in the best shape of my life, then i would be a happier individual; and all of the positives about myself,
my voice
my intelligence
quick wit/humor
my playful nature
my young ass face
would be magnified and much more appreciated than they are now.
my weight is the only obstacle in my life and i want to kill it with fire.
Nah you'll just be a swole nikka who insecure.
You seek satisfaction thru validation and that ain't the way. Hoes come and go but will always be there so really no need to be rushing for that.
You build your inner peace and foundation then build around it
its not even about hoes anymore. fukk them hoes. i just want loco to feel like he has the energy to accomplish the goals he sets, to be the charismatic guy he knows he is. and losing weight will help change my mindset. i dont care about the women no more.People will still find you unattractive. You may get the 'he's aight...' or "He's overrated"
You will never appeal to everyone.
Your looks will not fix whatever issues you aren't addressing mentally.
There's REAL disorders with body image and the people who suffer from them are usually moderately or very attractive, to others.
its not even about hoes anymore. fukk them hoes. i just want loco to feel like he has the energy to accomplish the goals he sets, to be the charismatic guy he knows he is. and losing weight will help change my mindset. i dont care about the women no more.
they do come and go. i just care about saving myself. thats all i want to do. im more important than these fickle women to me.
Then you're doing it for the right reasons.its not even about hoes anymore. fukk them hoes. i just want loco to feel like he has the energy to accomplish the goals he sets, to be the charismatic guy he knows he is. and losing weight will help change my mindset. i dont care about the women no more.
they do come and go. i just care about saving myself. thats all i want to do. im more important than these fickle women to me.
your first step to happiness is not giving a fukk. Stop seeking validation breh. It's a waste of time and energy..
all facts. ill keep it 100. i do realize it is. i just want my own self acceptance. i dont want ass or to be desired. just health. and self discipline is difficult.Then you're doing it for the right reasons.
People will come and go from our lives. Rinse and repeat.
Weight can be loss or gained. Looks can be changed. Really just need the funds/money and boom!all facts. ill keep it 100. i do realize it is. i just want my own self acceptance. i dont want ass or to be desired. just health. and self discipline is difficult.
i used to have the misconception(even though it lingers) that attractive people were always happy, and it used to have me when i saw sad attractive people. its fukked up honestly.Weight can be loss or gained. Looks can be changed. Really just need the funds/money and boom!
The most difficult thing is changing our mentalities. That's a long process. What we can't see but hide with our looks.