The last time i had sex was 2008 AMA

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:lupe:The low self esteem part seems to be the main issue. How's your self esteem now?
Its way better now. I learn to love and accept my self. Work on my best qualities while strengthening up my weakness. I'm just focused on being the best version of ME. I still have my days where my self esteem is shot but I have came along way
 

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You missed alot

bytches eat ass now
real talk...how do yall brehs feel about this? i'm down for a lot and would do this, but i dont like bytch nikkas and this seems like i would be making a dude into just that by emasculating him lol. like do i lay you on your stomach and go for it, or get you with your legs up in the air like a ho? :jbhmm:


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Depends on what you are looking for. If you just want to get that notch under your belt than you're better off lying and dealing with the fact that she may bounce.

If you looking for a relationship, then don't go for sex or talk about your history until she's shown a strong interest in you and has already invested in the situation (i.e. $$$), and then break down that you haven't had sex. Most chicks are gonna get that D, if they have already spent bread.

There's methods to do it efficiently without having to practice on a subpar chick. You just can't go about it the same way most guys go about sex.



That's wisdom talking.

You can't expect a virgin to go into a situation thinking that.

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real talk...how do yall brehs feel about this? i'm down for a lot and would do this, but i dont like bytch nikkas and this seems like i would be making a dude into just that by emasculating him lol. like do i lay you on your stomach and go for it, or get you with your legs up in the air like a ho? :jbhmm:


:mjlol:
:ld: we can do it like that. That's fine with me
 
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I know some White girls, if that's what you're into.
:patrice: what they look like? What they into?
Basically the old trope of dealing with undesirable women (which brehs have already suggested) isn't the sole way to start having sex, and IMO, is a mantra that rings less true every day with all the validation women get without even going on a date. More or less breh was saying go about sex based on your frame of desire. You've said you prefer emotional intimacy with one woman over slinging dikk around town so the method of taking things slow with a woman then eventually revealing you're inexperienced may work better than trying to jump steps with a bytch brehs think "has no options".

But even if you went for lower hanging fruit, still DO NOT tell them you're a virgin or inexperienced to warn them or keep it real. Past the age of 21 that works if you're extremely attractive. Otherwise you're giving them the window to go "if other women didn't like you, why should I?"

We're similar in reasons why we don't "eat" but I took a different path as a young adult.
 

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How did you know

read their body language... when girls faces started going from :stopitslime::hhh: :scust:to :pachaha::takedat: , i knew i was getting in somewhere

lets face it, you're not some master conversationalist so you cant probably hide your low self-esteem, low social value, etc. to people. Neither am i. thats why it has to come from WITHIN, not reading the internet
 

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Man where your friends? Me and my boys always either tryna lay up the other or take one for the team so we all can eat.
 
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read their body language... when girls faces started going from :stopitslime::hhh: :scust:to :pachaha::takedat: , i knew i was getting in somewhere

lets face it, you're not some master conversationalist so you cant probably hide your low self-esteem, low social value, etc. to people.
Neither am i. thats why it has to come from WITHIN, not reading the internet
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:patrice: what they look like? What they into?

Basically the old trope of dealing with undesirable women (which brehs have already suggested) isn't the sole way to start having sex, and IMO, is a mantra that rings less true every day with all the validation women get without even going on a date. More or less breh was saying go about sex based on your frame of desire. You've said you prefer emotional intimacy with one woman over slinging dikk around town so the method of taking things slow with a woman then eventually revealing you're inexperienced may work better than trying to jump steps with a bytch brehs think "has no options".

But even if you went for lower hanging fruit, still DO NOT tell them you're a virgin or inexperienced to warn them or keep it real. Past the age of 21 that works if you're extremely attractive. Otherwise you're giving them the window to go "if other women didn't like you, why should I?"

We're similar in reasons why we don't "eat" but I took a different path as a young adult.


What happen breh breh
 
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