what they look like? What they into?
Basically the old trope of dealing with undesirable women (which brehs have already suggested) isn't the sole way to start having sex, and IMO, is a mantra that rings less true every day with all the validation women get without even going on a date. More or less breh was saying go about sex based on your frame of desire. You've said you prefer emotional intimacy with one woman over slinging dikk around town so the method of taking things slow with a woman then eventually revealing you're inexperienced may work better than trying to jump steps with a bytch brehs think "has no options".
But even if you went for lower hanging fruit, still DO NOT tell them you're a virgin or inexperienced to warn them or keep it real. Past the age of 21 that works if you're extremely attractive. Otherwise you're giving them the window to go "if other women didn't like you, why should I?"
We're
similar in reasons why we don't "eat" but I took a different path as a young adult.