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FreedMind

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I'm a youngin at 21 but been with my girl for six years.:whew:

I've made it to my fourth year of college without ever cheating, although its been a few times where it gets difficult. I'm about an hour and a half away from my girl, so the distance is just barely enough to have me tempted to do dirt.:lupe:

There's this fine meximami I've gotten to know recently, and she's someone I really want to pursue. Cute face, Body on point, intelligent, and I just find her so interesting.:noah:

I know for a damn fact that I'd be all over her if I was single. Like she lowkey got me wanting to act like a sucker in love type of thing. Had her over at a house party few weeks back, and even with the drinks in me I knew I wasn't about to cheat that night. Danced with her, maybe a suggestive embrace as we said bye, but nothing else.:ehh:


Man, I really do want to go after this girl. But I know I'd be dumb to let go of my girlfriend. She's a great woman -- she still be washing her sheets and cooking me dinner every time I see her.:to:
 

Stir Fry

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Brehs hows the sex life doe :lupe: two of my boys are in sexless marriages and it scares me to death :mjcry:

I get it guaranteed once a week. Some might clown but we both have demanding schedules, a seven year old daughter, and have been together everyday for ten years. Once a week is fine for me at this point.
 

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Been married 10 plus.

Getting a little stale.
The kids are the glue....and the sex...and her cooking.
I am weary of her personality and resentment...and insecurity. Thought she would grow out of it.
She is tired of my work hours and being a home mother...and my general apathy for her whining...er feelings.
I am intelligent and worldly...she was in awe once...but never caught up in either category. Those two traits are now irritating to her.
She dislikes my mamma and that nikka that nutted in her. I don't care for them either...but she ain't supposed to cosign.
She has developed a coping mechanism that is degenerative to a healthy communicative relationship.
She likes Empire.:mjcry:

but

We can laugh at other peoples problems and laugh at how sane we are, and lucky to have each other. The alternative is a shallow IG thot for me, and nikka that get his eyebrows arched in skinny jeans for her. So we make it work by talking shyt, sharing a bottle of Remy and make up smash.:yeshrug:
You as soon as the kids are grown
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Recently passed 4 years since the 1st date. shyt it good. Both eat good off her family's cooking and mine, both have a good sense of direction and similar sets of morals and goals. Only real issues is that's she's a knicks fan so I squash her in 2k with the heat. How etherous it will be when the kids that'll eventually be there grow up wearing heat colors instead :jawalrus:. I should probably not squash her in smackdown as much though. No complaints though. She also wants to travel all over to similar places too and likes to hang with my friends as well. No awkwardness or anything at all. Shame she's allergic to most cats and dogs. Took ages for her to find the puppy she has now that doesn't have her sneezing or breaking out. A really good sign is when both sides try to annoy each other in the morning. I think it suggests nobody is going to bed or waking up unhappy.
 
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Not to get all in your business but is it robotic and uninteresting :lupe:

Nah, not at at. I'd be lying if I didn't say that we have found a formula that works for us, but she still makes my toes pop and I gives her epileptic fits 95% of the times that we do it. When you do it with someone that you have a genuine bond with, sex has been just as good, if not better than the weirdest shyt I've done with other people. To put it in perspective, I broke it off with a nymphomaniac, PAWG that was ten years my senior and living of alimony to persue my wife and I don't miss her or her sex in the least.
 
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