again with the deflection.
DO IT FOR YOURSELF.
fukk WHAT OTHERS THINK.
I'm not talking about myself, dammit.
You can't tell a woman to love herself when everything around her is telling her what she is is unacceptable and ugly.
I'm glad a lot of black women are rejecting the standard of beauty that had been damaging us for years but we still have a long way to go and it's going to take more than us individually learning to love ourselves, it's going to require us as a race to embrace our own unique beauty which is more than that loose curly hair black men salivate over