The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[PHamm]

This is kinda sad when there are women out here who would make great partners but never really get noticed.. I have two sisters, one 22 the other 24. The oldest one has a degree in accounting and is working towards her masters while supporting herself. She has her own place, car, no children, and all around just keeps her self together but it's like a desert out here for her. I read one of her facebook posts about her seeing all her friends getting married and starting families but she's not anywhere close to that..I don't know if she's not really making herself available on the dating market or she's just to conservative for most guys becuase she's not the type to give it up on the first date and more of a homebody.. I don't really confront her about it though, I just go off the vibe she gives on her social media accounts.

hook up them digits breh

 

[Malted Milk]

That's why I only sleep with men. #rainbowlife

 

[mariahcooper]

these women want to play with men their own age but we don't want to marry them we just want to fukk.

We will marry someone younger. Can't be showing up at corporate meetings with an old hag.
If you see my boss's wife...you will reconsider life :eddie:

And people wonder why young women are desperate to get married. just look at this!! most women get married by the time their 25, men value youth. Black women age pretty well compared to other races..but still those eggs will go to waste if she waits to long.

 

[Chris.B]

And people wonder why young women are desperate to get married. just look at this!! most women get married by the time their 25, men value youth. Black women age pretty well compared to other races..but still those eggs will go to waste if she waits to long.

she can hook up with Tyrone down the street.
He aint got a job and is thugged out...you know they love those.

 

[Dooby]

Powerful post breh. While I enjoy the company of women, I like the assurance of coming home to an empty house, my computer/gadgets, the food I like, the music/shows I like playing in the background and knowing that I can go to sleep and wake up with a clear mind of doing whatever the fukk I want the next day, even of that means bullshytting all day.

Call it handsome nikka problems, if you must.....

You can't exactly do that with someone omnipresent and hovering, while displaying a penchant for nagging.

I don't mind a chick coming thru to chill for the night and I'm cool with hanging out, having a meal, etc., but I don't want a chick lobbying pressure on where things are going and when we're gonna get engaged/married.

There's a healthy pool of dateable women out there but 95% of them just don't seem like they'd hold up for the long haul when it comes to being a wife

It's not like dudes are looking for an instagram type bytch in terms of looks to wife, but these everyday chicks don't realize that the everyday-ness they exude (going to work, their interests, relationship with their own families) are the same basic/pedestrian shyt that EVERY chick is doing. It's doesn't make them extra special and that doesnt mean they are trash either. But I don't get how extra average females damn near demand that it's a birthright to be married and have an official dude simply comply with this

I've currently been dating/seeing 2 chicks in the 27-29 age group and these chicks express that they wanna be married, blah, blah, and my dikk relays to me that while it likes being up in some puss, it's tired of these chicks bemoaning about their marriage prospects. I dropped a 35 year old PAWG from the team in the winter because we woukd wild out & have fun and after 3 or so fukk sessions in a night, she'd complain about how she's getting old because she doesn't bounce back as quickly from getting drunk. She then went on Tinder and told me she was looking for a BF and wanted to get married. I had to send her on her way.....

What is your age

 

[Vodun]

women age like milk and men age like fine wine

 

[Vodun]

Breh, this next crop of women aren't going to be any better. You think these current women have baggage, shiiiitt, this next crop's baggage is going to be documented and archived on social media. SMH.

Your best best is to get a foreign bytch or groom a bytch fresh of out high school!

my nikka thats what i did and i'm loving it!

 

[philmonroe]

What is your age

I wonder too cause it sounds like boy lying to these chicks. Every dude that says stuff I know don't be the most forthright with these chicks cause Ive never had to deal with a chick saying all that stuff. She knows where I stand and if she isn't with it she can leave no hard feelings. That's why I think most dudes are lying to these chicks

 

[Swirv]

Being a man is the best. Sucks that we die sooner though.

 

[Tae]

not for a woman, most men prefer younger women. and women stop producing eggs around 35-40 sometimes younger than that so if a woman wants a Husband and kids she can't wait til shes a old lady.


I see white girls and other races getting married all the time. Black men even marry white girls faster than they marry black women. Marriage isn't something a lot of black people value, a lot of black women are cool with being baby mommas. In other communities thats something women are shamed about so its more pressure for them.

Did you attend one of the school that didn't allow sex education. Women don't stop producing eggs until their late 40s early 50s.

I do see white women and other races getting married all of the time, I also see them getting divorced, so when someone brings that up its a moot point. White people seem more preoccupied with getting married than with building solid marriages.
Do black men marry white women quicker than that do black women? Perhaps, but I don't know what the dating to marriage rate is for different races. However, I do know BM in interracial marriages have the highest divorced rate, so once again more people getting married and not building solid marriages, or getting married for superficial reasons.
I wonder if most black women would rather be married for the first time at 35-40, compared to on their second marriage at 35-40.

 

[The Maverick]

But to keep it grounded, if you find a chick that is legit wife material (good maternal instincts, is caring, sexually attractive), do not hesitate to wife her. I've heard countless old men tell me about the shyt that comes with older women. Even though they may be straightened out and nice women, some baggage is forever.

Don't be the dude who gets stuck with the giant house and no framed pictures in it.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

I wonder too cause it sounds like boy lying to these chicks. Every dude that says stuff I know don't be the most forthright with these chicks cause Ive never had to deal with a chick saying all that stuff. She knows where I stand and if she isn't with it she can leave no hard feelings. That's why I think most dudes are lying to these chicks

Breh, no one is lying to anyone.

The 27 year old I'm dealing with told me straight up she wanted to be my friend and then a few weeks later came at me for some dikk. She later realized that I'm doing me (good job/crib/no kids/no c00ning/hairline in tact) and started alluding to the fact that she wanted more. Later after that she's talking about wanting to get her ish together and snag a serious BF.

Mind you, the times we chilled she made herself seem like this sexually liberated party animal who was cool with smashing. She's clearly used to bullshyt ass dudes and I wasn't sweating her hard because pulling chicks isn't some rubix cube of complexity.

Not to say I'm the fukkin man or anything but I'm not a bullshyt ass dude so when I do get involved with a chick, 9 times outta 10, they want more. And that's where things go south. Folks wanna be fukk buddies and as time passes on they see their homegirl getting married/pregnant and they feel like they're being left behind.

I just think these chicks believe that our option are the same as there and this goes for EVERY race (well almost, LOL). But as a brother getting his and being solely reliant on himself, not being a tap dancing c00n and handsome (we do exist), it's a different scenario.

So yes, the time table to get married does get pushed back indefinitely, especially in a place like NY where being an official ass dude is treated like a premium product.

 

[mariahcooper]

Did you attend one of the school that didn't allow sex education. Women don't stop producing eggs until their late 40s early 50s.

I do see white women and other races getting married all of the time, I also see them getting divorced, so when someone brings that up its a moot point. White people seem more preoccupied with getting married than with building solid marriages.
Do black men marry white women quicker than that do black women? Perhaps, but I don't know what the dating to marriage rate is for different races. However, I do know BM in interracial marriages have the highest divorced rate, so once again more people getting married and not building solid marriages, or getting married for superficial reasons.
I wonder if most black women would rather be married for the first time at 35-40, compared to on their second marriage at 35-40.

well i know several women that went through menopause late 30's. My grandma said she went through it in her early 40s so i guess it varies. Either way around that time bracket it can happen, especially if you started your period at an early age. White and Asian communities have more wealth on average because the men value taking of their women and families while black women are in the ghetto taking care of their children by themselves. Marriage doesn't mean you can't be a single mom but it lowers your chances. I would never get pregnant by someone i'm not pregnant to, hell no. that's the stupidest thing you can do. A lot of marriages also last i see white happy couples all the time, i dont know why yall make it seem like all marriages are failing. I know a black woman who is married to a white man and there happy ass hell, I actually look up to there relationship. If a black woman waits until shes 35 or 40 it will be harder for her to find a mate.

 

[mariahcooper]

also having children in your late 30's and 40's is extremely dangerous i want to add. Doctors say a woman has healthier eggs in her 20's, your putting your kids at risk for health defects if you wait that long, plus your putting your self at risk.

 

[skb1065]

All marriage is , is a merger of finances....

try and get rich (or richer) together