The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

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They use that shyt to try to make light of the precarious state they're in. A woman above the age of 30 without a serious option knows that each hour, day, week, month, etc. that goes by brings them one step closer to becoming the proverbial cat lady.

They begin to hate holidays because they have to go around friends and family. Quite often, they're the odd one out--the 30+ single, childless chick among her married friends and relatives.

Whereas a 30+ single man isn't bombarded with questions in those situations, it's not the same for women. They get all types of questions, both direct and indirect, regarding their dating prospects and plan for a family. Those older relatives are ruthless when it comes to tossing those types of questions out there.

There's a lot of pressure on women past 30. Most of them dug their own graves, so I don't feel sorry for them. Squander your 20s, brehettes.


This is the problem with thinking men and women are the same. Men and women do not even age equally socially. These are not rules I made up, but just the way society operates. In all my jobs that I have worked at the women who were over 32 and single would talk about how they don't need a man, how they can't find a good man, or how no man has met their standards yet.
 

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Why is this news to anyone? We already know that if a couple wants to avoid defects in child birth the younger the woman is the better. What is wrong with women wanting to have a family of their own? So if a woman isn't 25 and under they should give up hope on finding a husband and settle for being the community cum bucket until their body falls off? Coli nikkas are dumb as fukk.
 

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This is the problem with thinking men and women are the same. Men and women do not even age equally socially. These are not rules I made up, but just the way society operates. In all my jobs that I have worked at the women who were over 32 and single would talk about how they don't need a man, how they can't find a good man, or how no man has met their standards yet.

Same thing at my job. The 30+ single females are bitter, lonely, angry....yet refuse to lower their sky-high standards to date a normal guy that isn't a CEO with 3 houses, making 300k annually, no kids and 4 cars.
*rolleyes*

No sympathy for these run-through, unwanted, sadiddy hoes...
 
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single, childless, older females , age 30+ lost in the past, are losing now, and will lose in the future. :yeshrug: :manny:
The gravy train (strong sexual/social attention and validation from men, IG/Twitter/facebook likes, gifts, jobs and $$$ from simps, large social circle,(women have less platonic male friends and less girlfriends as they get to 35+) relationships with men, options when it comes to men, and healthy kids) has left, never to return :yeshrug:
 
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single, childless, older females , age 30+ lost in the past, are losing now, and will lose in the future. :yeshrug: :manny:
The gravy train (strong sexual/social attention and validation from men, relationships with men, options when it comes to men, and healthy kids) has left, never to return :yeshrug:

Yeah. It has to be a terrible feeling.

Probably similar to the nikka who is the bench player on his college basketball team as senior night approaches.

For years, that nikka has eaten off the attention he got via basketball. With no chance at the NBA or playing overseas, all the attention is about to dry up quick fast.

It's both a beautiful moment as he reflects and a sobering one as he looks ahead. :mjcry:
 

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Females 30 plus and single are delusional in a sense. I'm dating one now and I honestly feel bad for her because of all the outside pressure she's facing. Her friends are getting married or engaged, he moms wants her to settle down and her church community is asking her questions like "why ain't you married with a family yet." I've said nothing to her about it but I can see the effects it's had on her mentality and self esteem.

But all that bullshyt aside she's just has too high expectations without dealing with the reality of the situation. She trying to force me to commit to shyt waaay too early and she gets overly emotional over the simplest things. Needless to say the bushes are in her near future :francis:
 

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Females 30 plus and single are delusional in a sense. I'm dating one now and I honestly feel bad for her because of all the outside pressure she's facing. Her friends are getting married or engaged, he moms wants her to settle down and her church community is asking her questions like "why ain't you married with a family yet." I've said nothing to her about it but I can see the effects it's had on her mentality and self esteem.

But all that bullshyt aside she's just has too high expectations without dealing with the reality of the situation. She trying to force me to commit to shyt waaay too early and she gets overly emotional over the simplest things. Needless to say the bushes are in her near future :francis:


What are her expectations?
 

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What are her expectations?

- I'm back in school and she wants that time. She says it's not an issue but says indirect shyt go let me know her not getting my time is affecting her.
- she feels like I should take financial responsibility for her or be her financial safety net only after the first month of talking to her.
- feels like she should have male friends and I should be OK with it. :pachaha:
- I'm introvert like hell and she expects me to change...

There's more but you catch the drift.
 

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- I'm back in school and she wants that time. She says it's not an issue but says indirect shyt go let me know her not getting my time is affecting her.
- she feels like I should take financial responsibility for her or be her financial safety net only after the first month of talking to her.
- feels like she should have male friends and I should be OK with it. :pachaha:
- I'm introvert like hell and she expects me to change...

There's more but you catch the drift.
She had too many demands early on.
 

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She had too many demands early on.

Exactly. You see where I'm coming from. The main reason I know the Agism is killing her is because we have so many differences that most mature people would agree its not meant to be and part ways, but she wants "to compromise and work it out." At first I was with it but now I thinks she just hanging on because I'm a decent guy I realize how shallow the dating pool is for sistas out here.
 

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Exactly. You see where I'm coming from. The main reason I know the Agism is killing her is because we have so many differences that most mature people would agree its not meant to be and part ways, but she wants "to compromise and work it out." At first I was with it but now I thinks she just hanging on because I'm a decent guy I realize how shallow the dating pool is for sistas out here.
What do you mean she expects you it take financial responsibility.

That's one thing I can't stand about modern women. No one should enter a relationship with the expectation of being a financial liability. A bf/gf is supposed to be an asset
 

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- I'm back in school and she wants that time. She says it's not an issue but says indirect shyt go let me know her not getting my time is affecting her.
- she feels like I should take financial responsibility for her or be her financial safety net only after the first month of talking to her.
- feels like she should have male friends and I should be OK with it. :pachaha:
- I'm introvert like hell and she expects me to change...

There's more but you catch the drift.


There is a reason why she is single past 30. She will more than likely remain single. Throw her so far in the bushes that she can't come out. Wtf us wrong with her?
 
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