The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[wunder]

That analogy about the job interview.

So real I had to read that a few more times.

 

[mamba]

It's true. 100%. On fb or ig they counter by posting pics like this:

But inside they're like

Esp around 28 they start to hear that biological clock tick louder n every big holiday or event they're alone they feel it. This girl I was talking to was 28 n she kept talking about her sisters baby talking about how beautiful babies are and I'm like nah they stink and cry a lot she was like

They use that shyt to try to make light of the precarious state they're in. A woman above the age of 30 without a serious option knows that each hour, day, week, month, etc. that goes by brings them one step closer to becoming the proverbial cat lady.

They begin to hate holidays because they have to go around friends and family. Quite often, they're the odd one out--the 30+ single, childless chick among her married friends and relatives.

Whereas a 30+ single man isn't bombarded with questions in those situations, it's not the same for women. They get all types of questions, both direct and indirect, regarding their dating prospects and plan for a family. Those older relatives are ruthless when it comes to tossing those types of questions out there.

There's a lot of pressure on women past 30. Most of them dug their own graves, so I don't feel sorry for them. Squander your 20s, brehettes.

 

[Jahmal]

 

[mamba]

Such a big family.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

That NFL RB analogy is genius

 

[Justise M]

It takes two unless she's trying to marry herself. A lot of men we encounter at that age aren't ready to settle down. The problem is that some come with a lot of baggage when they are ready. Multiple baby mamas, emotionally damaged by thots in his youth...

But also our current culture is one that celebrates hoism. Most "goody" women are single. The hoes be on their 2nd marriage after having completely destroyed the lives of their first two husbands/baby daddies.

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/black-women-out-chere-marrying-themselves.287367/

 

[mamba]

Joy Chen is a superstar in China, the champion of young women known as "leftovers" -- those who are still single in their mid-20s and scorned by all.

"Their value is derived from their marital status," Chen told ABCNews.com. "Women who are married are normal; those who are unmarried are abnormal."

Chen is the author of "Do Not Marry Before Age 30," a pop culture bestseller that offers dating advice and strives to help women reach their full potential. The book is a latest sensation among a new class of working women in China, some of the best educated in the world.

"There is a deep insecurity among women if they are not married: How are they going to live and survive," said Chen, a Chinese-American who once served as deputy mayor of Los Angeles.

"When you reach 25 and 26, no one wants you anymore," she said of the attitude. "You are no longer beautiful and no longer loved and lose your value as a human being.

"One woman told me she was a leftover at 22," she said. "It's really hard for Americans to imagine that kind of pressure. And it comes from all directions -- from parents, from colleagues at work, everyone you meet in a business capacity and socially."

Chinese dudes aren't playin' out here!

 

[KOOL_G_TRAP]

Wrinkly white skin

Fuzzy yellow body hair

Big ass cac calf muscles

liver spots

thin cac lips

cac cankles

spider veins visible on pasty white skin

Yall nikkas can PAWG all you want. I can't do it, brehs. I could never wife up a white woman.

I cannot imagine waking up next to a white woman at age 40 or 50.

White bytches start looking like old, cac men with wigs on around those ages. My dikk can't get hard looking at liver spots.

fukk that shyt.

I still want to be waking up to something brown, warm and with a fat ass in my 40s and 50s.

Not to mention cac in-laws. What type of real nikka wants a bunch of cac in-laws?

 

[MikelArteta]

Gypsies are the same

Chinese dudes aren't playin' out here!

 

[MikelArteta]

" nothing uglier than a old white woman"

 

[MikelArteta]

They use that shyt to try to make light of the precarious state they're in. A woman above the age of 30 without a serious option knows that each hour, day, week, month, etc. that goes by brings them one step closer to becoming the proverbial cat lady.

They begin to hate holidays because they have to go around friends and family. Quite often, they're the odd one out--the 30+ single, childless chick among her married friends and relatives.

Whereas a 30+ single man isn't bombarded with questions in those situations, it's not the same for women. They get all types of questions, both direct and indirect, regarding their dating prospects and plan for a family. Those older relatives are ruthless when it comes to tossing those types of questions out there.

There's a lot of pressure on women past 30. Most of them dug their own graves, so I don't feel sorry for them. Squander your 20s, brehettes.

 

[Wild self]

Black women's biggest problem is they don't go to where the "good" men they claim to want are and they have no hobbies they can use as a lead-in to avoid the cold approach to a nikka they want.

They think they're going to find that nikka in the church. Nope. nikkas don't go to church. They think they're going to find that nikka in the lounge on $2 Tuesdays. Nope. He'll hit, but he ain't tryin' to wife you up. They think they'll find that nikka in the gym. Nope. He'll hit because his initial attraction is to the physical. Nothing else brought you two together. No shared interests.

White women have this shyt figured out. They go to where solid men are who share their interests. They take up hobbies solid men are in to. Quite often, those cac chicks aren't interested in that shyt. Just gives them an easy way to strike up a convo with a dude so it doesn't look like a cold approach. Black women, sadly, have very few hobbies, so everything looks like a cold approach which is something most of them feel they're above doing.

 

[Wild self]

feminism and hollywood fault.....brainwashing and empowering these women.....now women are single and childless because they're holding out for a man that don't exist

Even worse, women are expected to find their Tupac in a Business suit, they have to stay in school longer, and find good employment which is much harder

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

It's hard out here for black women, my first year of college there was this 27 year old that somehow started likin me. She was fine with a damn job and her own place, can black chicks really not find a damn man out in the world? shyt is that bad?

Yuuuup! They have unreasonable standards the whole time they're young and they look good, then when they're starting to fall off they wanna scoop up everything with a job and a car and work towards "The American Dream" after their puss blown out and they gettin wrinkly and everyone been thru there.

Most dudes be like FOH...

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

if women banned together and decided not to give us sex until marriage, the marriage rates would sky rocket

but that will never happen

They would have to ban alcohol. bytche's be prude till u get a little liquor in that gut.