The dating pool is terrible for our black queens

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I get having standards (as she should) but she's doing the most and wanting too much.

There's not gonna be a perfect man that will check every single criteria on her list. Just not gonna happen. She better compromise and get it how she can especially if she's in her late 20s or 30s.

My single friends are struggling and they not as uptight & strict as this chick.

She went to college in 2010 so she has be at least 29-30.. That window is closing, she got about 3 years...
 

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nikkaz want to risk having a son with her and his hairline starts receding at 20 years old. Her shyt is like 3 inches away from where it should be
If this bytch looked at me sideways I'd roast her until she committed that. Ugly bytches really think they people out here. A woman shouldn't be capable of being that unattractive, but still having an even less attractive personality. bytch musta fell and bumped her head that's why it looks like that
 

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If you think you're lonely now, ohhh girl...
The longer I live, the more apparent it becomes that most people (men and women alike) are full of shyt. What people primarily engage in socially is this legerdemain that acts to persevere and protect their ego. When that breh graduated law school and stated he’s the prize now — a lot of dudes on here agreed with him. A lot of women on social media said he’s not cute enough for that declaration, and so on. Here, you have an accomplished woman basically saying that’s the kind of man she’s wants, and you have men saying that she’s not cute enough for those stipulations. Essentially, it’s the other side of the same damn coin.

Moreover, is what she’s asking for really that crazy? I’m 30+, no kids, I start on my PhD in the fall at either Rice or Notre Dame, have no issues with whatever people choose to do sexually in their bedroom or whatever they sexually identify as. I don’t have to call someone a fakkit to feel like a man. Additionally, I have no interest romantically or sexually in other men — and never have. I can hold these positions simultaneously. I’ve never been married, and being a baby daddy is not an option. Yet, despite being a p*ssy magnet and putting up prime Kobe numbers yearly — not siring any children has been incredibly easy.

If she doesn’t look good enough for those requirements, and she’s a bytch and all this other extra-curricular shyt… what we’re really saying is that we’re more animalistic and primal than we want to admit. And if that’s the case most of that shyt people talk socially about what women need to do to attract men — particularly black men — is bullshyt. Right? If it all really boils down to how fine a woman is, she should get a BBL, and get her chi’s chi’s done, start rocking a 27 piece, and her requests becomes much more reasonable. That’s kinda warped, no?

To keep it real, if her expectations were on the opposite end of the spectrum, y’all would say she needs to choose better. If she was somewhere in the middle, “Oh, she wants Tupac in business suit.” If Tupac in a business suit fukked her over and left her as a baby momma, “Oh, she should have had higher expectations. She should have chose better.” Basically, for a woman that isn’t prime Cherokee D’ass Phatty Girl 2 fine — it’s always going to be her fault, so I can’t blame shorty for wanting what she wants because no will give a damn if shyt goes sideways, because she’s not fine, right?

People are funny.
 

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I was chatting with a sister on hinge a few months ago and we were vibing well. Out the blue she asked me what I think about Trans rights. I told her that they can do whatever they want as long as they're consenting adults but I don't personally agree with the lifestyle and don't wish them any physical harm. She then started calling me transphobic, homophobic, etc. It was weird.

This is what I was talking about in my brunch thread. Black men don't get a free range of expression of our own perspective in the human experience without being labeled as homophobic and transphobic.

I've been called sexist on many occasions by female acquaintances because I didn't bend the knee on feminist ideology yet none of the women in my personal life have never had any problem with me saying anything because they know I love them. Sure I can be slightly chauvinistic but they know I'm not hateful towards women. I want to see them succeed. If I say something wrong they check me instead of labeling me.

THIS is why we need our own spaces not infiltrated by other groups or any of that Shea Butter Blavity stuff. fukk all that.
 

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This is what I was talking about in my brunch thread. Black men don't get a free range of expression of our own perspective in the human experience without being labeled as homophobic and transphobic.

I've been called sexist on many occasions by female acquaintances because I didn't bend the knee on feminist ideology yet none of the women in my personal life have never had any problem with me saying anything because they know I love them. Sure I can be slightly chauvinistic but they know I'm not hateful towards women. I want to see them succeed. If I say something wrong they check me instead of labeling me.

THIS is why we need our own spaces not infiltrated by other groups or any of that Shea Butter Blavity stuff. fukk all that.

Black men are whatever phobic for not wanting a dikk in our ass
but ask women if they will date a bi sexual man :francis:
 
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